Is He Cheating?

Lately your boyfriend has been distant emotionally and physically. You two haven’t been intimate in weeks. The first thing you think is, “he’s cheating!” Now before you jump the gun and think he’s been unfaithful to you, take a breath and assess the situation. There may be signs of infidelity or you may just be hitting a rough patch in your relationship.
Take note of his behavior lately. Has anything changed? Is he more secretive around you? For example, he used to be more open with his phone or computer, but now every time he gets a text message he turns the screen away from you. This is a big red flag. Another big sign something is up is the amount of time he spends with you. If it has lessened or if he’s finding reasons to go out all time to constantly seeing a certain friend, then you should probably worry.
Has he cheated before?
Your feelings often never lie to you. If you feel that something wrong, or he may be unfaithful then it may be time to explain how you feel. Lack of communication is often a big reason why relationships don’t work out. Don’t go and accuse him of cheating right off the bat, ask him how he feels about your relationship or ask him if his feelings have changed for you. Gage his reaction, if he claims nothing is wrong or seems to not care you may need to make a decision about your relationship. Cheaters can often be unremorseful and unemotional.
If he confesses to an affair or if you find substantial proof of his infidelities, you need to make a decision. Take time to think your relationship is salvageable and make the decision of whether or not you want to stay in it. If you do, then it’s time to put in some hard work. You need to regain your trust in him and he needs to rebuild it. If the relationship is beyond repair, it’s time to move on.

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