Is Your Boyfriend A Jerk?

Sometimes we can make the wrong choices when it comes to our dating life. Now everyone isn’t perfect and we all make mistakes but there are certain warning signs your beau isn’t as great as you think he is. It’s time to take off those rose-tinted sunglasses and see him for what he really is.
Does the world revolve around him? Do you need to make sure everything you plan is around his schedule? When your boyfriend has no consideration for anyone else but himself, he may not be as awesome as you think. While it is important to worry about yourself, you should also worry about the ones you care about. Don’t let a self-centered man take over your life. You have your life to live as well.
You know the saying, “your character is how you treat those who can’t give you things?” Take a close look at how he treats the people around him. Is he condescending? Rude? Does he only perk up or act nice to those who can get him what he wants? You should never walk around thinking you are better than everyone and if your boyfriend treats everyone like crap, it’s time to reevaluate whether or not he’s the right guy for you. It will be likely he will treat you poorly as well when he can’t get what he wants from you.
Another sign he’s a big jerk? You are not a priority. He never has your back and constantly bails on you when “better” plans come along. You want a man who will make sure you are happy in the relationship. If you also notice your boyfriend criticizes everything about you, run the other way. He makes himself feel better by tearing you down. You may not believe it now, but after hearing it for some time, you may start believing you aren’t good enough.
Every relationship is a growing experience in this journey of life, but be aware of the relationships that are more detrimental than helpful. Dating a man who gives you nothing in return is truly not worth your time. Leave that jerk and get a man who will treat you like the queen you are.

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