Every woman wonders, when she is going out on a date, if the guy is going to like her. Will he think I am pretty? Am I thin enough? Do these pants make my thighs look fat? Will I be interesting enough? Some women are more nervous than others, of course, but we all wonder. Wouldn’t it be wonderful if there were some tips and tricks that were certain to make a guy like you? To make you fascinating and irresistible? Well – wait for it, wait for it! – there are!
Let’s not over generalize…
No one is the same. Let me say that again: every single person is unique. How can we have tips, then, that we can apply to all men? Well, think about it this way: we as women all love a compliment, don’t we? We all want our date to think we are slender and sexy, right? Men all want a few very basic things themselves (and I’m not talking about a role in the hay here girls!).
Men want to feel masculine
That is right. Men want to feel important. They want to feel like we need them. Maybe we just want our date to make us feel important for the evening. However, a man wants to feel, well, manly. Some men express this longing by becoming “macho”
How do we put this into practice in an evening?
Is it your first date? If so, you might be wondering how in the world you can show your date how wonderful and masculine he (wants you to think he) is without seeming too gushy. It is simple. Just thank him when he opens the door for you. Ask his opinion – this is very important, for a guy wants you to want his opinion – about dinner, about a work project if you discuss your jobs, etc. If you end up talking about sports or intense outdoor activities such as rock climbing or mountain biking, let him know how impressed you are with his achievements. Also, let him know how impressed you are with his accomplishments in the work place – work is such an important part of a man’s life. A man will become putty in a woman’s hands if she makes him feel like a tough hero-man.
Now, here is one final secret for today: be true to yourself. While you might try to make an extra effort to compliment your date on things that have particular meaning for men, remember that you will be most charming if you still remain true to yourself. Openly show your personality! Do not try to become someone else just to try to please your date. Make your man feel like a man, but be your true self.