Never before has attracting women been so easier and made me so confused at the same time. Are you confused about how to attract women? Are you ready for a quick list of actionable techniques that have helped me succeed? Well, lets get right into it then!
1.Be a leader, not a follower.
Attractive men lead by example and take responsibility for their own lives. They are not afraid to make decisions, even if they aren’t always right.
2. Be positive and optimistic.
Women love men who see the glass as half full versus half empty. They also appreciate having someone who is willing to be happy in the moment, and have fun!
3.Be a good listener.
Women love it when you listen to them without interrupting or offering advice all the time. Even though you might think that you need to fix everything for her, often times just being there for her is enough! Plus, she will feel better talking about her problems with you than anyone else because she knows that you won’t judge her for what she says
4. Participate in activities she enjoys
Women are attracted to interest and enthusiasm—so if she has a hobby or a passion, be interested in it. If she loves sports, go watch a game with her; if she’s into art, go check out an exhibit; if she loves the theater, go see a play with her; if she loves cooking, go help out in the kitchen—and make sure it’s something you enjoy. Even if you’re not into it at first, don’t be afraid to give it a try! When you make an effort like this, it tells her that even though you can do whatever you want on your own time, you value spending time with her enough that you’re willing to try something new just because she enjoys it.
5. Share your passions with her and show her who you are
Women like a man who is passionate about something in his life. This can be work, family, music, or anything else that makes you who you are. Show her what makes you tick and she will appreciate it very much.
6. Have a sense of humor.
Laugh at yourself. If something happens that isn’t funny but you react as if it is, that’s a sure sign that you can see things from different perspectives and are comfortable enough with yourself to not always take things so seriously. Women like men who are secure enough with themselves not to take everything so seriously all the time.
Women like men who are upbeat and positive. If you’re feeling down about your job or about your love life, don’t let it show!
8. Wear clothes that make you feel good.
Having a good self-image gives off a positive vibe and will attract women to you. Make sure your clothing fits well and looks good on you. Go for colors that suit you best, such as green or blue.
9.Treat her like a lady.
This is one of the oldest tricks in the book. Open doors for her, pull out her chair at dinner, and walk her to her car or home — this is how gentlemen act. This is how she should expect to be treated, and it’s how you should want to treat your woman!
10.Show off your intelligence.
Women are attracted to men who are intelligent and can teach them new things. Being intelligent means being able to carry on stimulating conversation, remembering details about what she says, challenging her viewpoints in an agreeable way, and showing an interest in world events among many other things.
Your interests should be broad enough that you have stories to tell about things other than work or school, but if your interests are very obscure or “nerdy,” make sure you are able to talk about them in a social context with ease.
12. One way to make yourself more approachable is to stay off your smartphone.
Looking at your phone all the time makes you come across as antisocial. It turns you into that guy who’s always on his phone when everyone else is talking about something interesting, who seems totally uninterested in the world around him and has no intention of making any new friends or even speaking to anyone.
13. Listen to what she has to say.
When it comes to attracting women, listening is a skill that will allow you to stay connected with them, gain their trust, and ultimately make them want you more. But this goes beyond just being able to hear what they’re saying: it’s about showing genuine interest in what they have to say by nodding or adding commentary here or there. This can be very helpful because it helps her feel appreciated—something that women yearn for! The bottom line is simple: if you listen well, she’ll feel better about herself and she’ll be more likely to trust you—all of which lead directly toward wanting you more.
14. Don’t try to be a “nice guy.”
A lot of guys make the mistake of thinking that being a “nice guy” is what attracts women. This couldn’t be further from the truth. Sure, being nice is an attractive quality, but when it comes down to it, women are attracted to men who are assertive and confident. You don’t have to be mean or a jerk to get girls; you just have to know how to display certain behaviors that girls find attractive.
15. Be assertive.
Okay, here we go: confidence is attractive. Not only that, but it’s a form of nonverbal communication—you’re sending a message to the world around you that you are someone worth talking to and spending time with. When you walk into a room and your presence imparts an aura of self-assuredness and decisiveness, people will naturally be drawn to you. The trick is in making sure that your assertiveness comes across in the right way.
16. Be confident.
Confidence is one of the most attractive qualities a person can have. When a guy walks into a room and has an air of confidence, women are drawn to him like a moth to a flame. Women want men who know what they want, and how they want to achieve it.
There is no magic formula for attracting women and success with women, but there are steps that you can follow to obtain a greater success rate at achieving your goals. The first step is to understand the motives behind why men seek women’s attention in the first place. If you have this correct understanding then you will see the mistakes that most men make and thereby begin to avoid the same traps and pitfalls.