If you’re still struggling with how to make a guy fall in love, I highly recommend you try these surprise tactics. Although it’s not easy to make a man fall in love with you, there are certainly methods which can help.
1. Leave a Flirty Note
Spice up your boyfriend’s lunch with a little note. You can write something as simple as “I love you” or “Can’t wait to see you tonight”. If you’re feeling fancy, get some craft supplies and write him a poem or song. You can also use his favorite candy to spell out a message.
2. Send him a Romantic Text
One of the best ways to surprise him is to send him a romantic text when you know he’s at work. It can be something as simple as “I miss you” or “Thinking about you.” Or it can be something a lot more elaborate.
3. Give Him an Unexpected Kiss or Hug
This is such a simple thing to do, but it makes a profound difference in how you relate to each other. If you normally greet him with a kiss when he comes home, come up with something different. Try going around the corner and pretending that you weren’t expecting him. Then jump out and give him a big hug or kiss.
4. Give Him a Massage
Everyone loves massages! They’re a great way to unwind after a long day at work, and they relieve all kinds of stress. Give your man the best gift ever by surprising him with an impromptu massage before bed. If you’re not sure how to give one, check out this article on how to give your partner the perfect massage.
5. Cook For Him
There’s nothing like home cooking. It’s delicious, romantic, and thoughtful. Your man will love coming home from a hard day at work to find his favorite meal waiting for him on the table. If you need some inspiration for recipes, try these 30 wonderful date night meals for two.
6. Don’t Take It Too Seriously
You have to keep your energy light and fun, or else she’ll start to think of this as another boring text exchange that leads nowhere. Be sure to read her profile and look for things you have in common so you can keep the conversation flowing!
7. Surprise Him With Tickets to The Game
Surprise him with tickets to a game involving his favorite sports team. Don’t forget to buy him a shirt supporting his team to wear out for dinner after the game. This is also a great idea for surprising someone you haven’t seen in years, but are planning on seeing soon. If he lives in a different city from where you live, have them waiting at the hotel reception desk. He may be exhausted from traveling and not want to go out after the game, so leaving tickets will allow him to decide whether or not he wants to attend.
8. Give Him A Gift That’s Personal
It can be something as simple as a t-shirt with his favorite sports team logo on it or a calendar featuring his favorite celebrities. Whatever the gift is, it should be something that shows you took the time to really think about what he would like — and that he’ll use.
9. be his cheerleader
One of the biggest mistakes couples make is that they stop encouraging each other once they become a couple. However, one of the best ways to keep him interested is to continue to be his biggest fan. A simple text message letting him know how much you appreciate all he does for you could mean a lot to him.
10.Plan a Surprise Getaway
One of the best ways to show your boyfriend how much he means to you is to plan a surprise getaway. It doesn’t have to be anything extravagant, just something that will allow you to spend uninterrupted time together.
The key here is that it’s a surprise. Your guy will love the fact that you are planning this adventure just for him. Not only that, but it gives you an opportunity to do things for each other that you don’t normally have time for because of your busy schedules.
11. Be dependable
This is one of the most important qualities in a person, be it your friend or your lover. Being dependable means that you can be depended upon at any given time. This means keeping your promises no matter what. If you promise him that you will take him out for dinner on his birthday, then make sure you do it. On the other hand, if you don’t feel like keeping a promise to him, let him know beforehand so that he isn’t disappointed later on.
12. Be affectionate
Being affectionate can help strengthen the bond between you and your partner. It can help make him feel loved and appreciated by you. It can also make him more inclined to want to show you affection as well, which could really help improve your connection as a couple.
13. Greet Him In Lingerie
It’s a well-known fact that men are visual creatures. There is nothing sexier than a woman in lingerie. Put on some sexy underwear and a hot outfit that accentuates your best features, and greet him at the door when he gets home from work (or go over to his house unannounced). Make sure to wear something easy to remove!
14. Surprise Him with His Favourite Bottle of Wine
Surprises just make your boyfriend feel special. You can also surprise him with some nice bottle of wine or his favourite beer with a romantic candle light dinner. That is one of the best ways to surprise your boyfriend when you two are in love.
So there you have it ladies, some surprises to make him fall in love with you. None of them involve expensive gifts or clothes or giant romantic gestures. Instead, they focus on being present and showing him that you care about and for him. You’ll be amazed at how much your man will open up when you pay attention to his interests and what makes him tick. And the more you know, the easier it is to make him fall in love with you even more.