Dating is hard. It’s no secret that there are a lot of things to keep in mind on a date, like manners and appropriate topics of conversation. But did you know that there are also some things that will just turn women off?
In order to avoid being labelled as the jerk who doesn’t know how to treat a lady, here are five things you should never do on a date:
1) Never call her out for not responding to a text or email
2) Never show up late
3) Never rush her decision to go home with you
4) Never talk about other girls when she is with you
5) Never send lewd pictures or messages without first asking if it’s okay
Never call her out for not responding to a text or email
It’s disappointing when you have to wait a while to hear back from someone that you’re interested in, but never call her out on it. Calling her out on it will just make her feel like she has failed and that she is a disappointment.
If you want to show your interest in someone, the best thing to do is send them a text or email letting them know how much you care about them. You should be able to tell if they are committed by their response time.
If she doesn’t respond for an extended period of time, then it may be time to move on. You don’t want to waste your time with someone who isn’t interested in you anyways.
Never show up late
This one should be a no-brainer. There is nothing more frustrating than waiting for someone to show up, especially when they are late.In order to avoid this, make sure you give the woman you’re on a date with your contact information and ask her to send you hers so that the two of you can coordinate a meeting time in advance. But if you do end up running late, don’t just show up; call and let her know what’s going on so she doesn’t have to wait around forever before realizing you aren’t coming. It’ll go a long way towards getting her to agree to go out with you again!
Never rush her decision to go home with you
Don’t rush her. If she seems like she is hesitant to come back to your place and you’re trying to convince her, don’t. She may have any number of reasons why she’s hesitant, including not being comfortable with the idea of coming home with you, or because she doesn’t want you to think that’s all she wants from you. Listen to her and understand why she feels the way she does. Address her concerns and reassure her that there are no expectations beyond what they agree on. Many people feel nervous about dating and navigating their first sexual encounter with new partners. Being upfront about your intentions for the evening will help ensure that both of you are on the same page going forward, which will make for a better experience for both parties involved.
Never talk about other girls when she is with you
As much as girls like a confident guy, there’s a limit to how confident we want him to be. So if he talks about other girls in front of us, it will just make us feel like he doesn’t see us as the one.
For example, if he’s at dinner and mentions another girl who is attractive or seems like she would be easy to go home with, it’ll just show that he’s not interested in spending time with you. He should be focusing on building your relationship instead.
Never send lewd pictures or messages without first asking if it’s okay
One of the worst things you can do on a date is send lewd pictures or messages without first asking. This will most likely turn her off and make her feel uncomfortable. And, she’ll probably never want to see you again. The only exception to this rule is if she sends you something first, for example an innocent picture in which she’s wearing a skimpy outfit, and then you reciprocate with a similar photo. If that’s the case, it’s totally fine to send back a photo or message saying “you look hot.”