There may be plenty of fish in the sea, but that makes it even easier for all of the boring profiles to drown.
Crafting a profile that can stand out in a crowd of millions can be the difference between getting a couple of swipes and matches or getting continued attention from the dates you want.
It’s certainly not easy, though, to make something unique when the online dating population is so saturated. Many find it too time consuming to come up with an original profile and they end up just using the same generic answers as everyone else.
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If you are trying to set yourself apart, here are some guidelines that can help get you started.
Lose the selfies
If you’re looking for something real, you need to ditch the selfies and add some photos that won’t just blend in with all of the 20-year-olds on the app.
When looking through your photos to select your choices, it can be easy to end up adding all selfies to your profile. These are usually the majority of the pictures you have of yourself and when you lack enough, they are easy to take. But if you want to be taken more seriously, it’s best to leave most of these out of the lineup.
Photos that don’t have an arm shooting toward the lens will automatically look like you’re a little more put together.
When you don’t have any better pictures, though, and you don’t want to enlist help, try setting up your phone with a timer or using a wireless remote.
This way, you can get a more natural look without much more effort!
Capture your personality
If your typical style is bright and bold, don’t dull yourself down to take the typically ‘popular’ photos.
If you really want to set yourself apart, the best and easiest way to do this is to let your personality show. There is no simpler way to be unique than to just be yourself!
When your potential matches come across photos that give off a sense of your personality, they will be too interested to pass you by.
When attempting to take some better photos, don’t seek to recreate what you think others would find attractive. Instead, take the pictures that you like and that make you feel good and natural.
Another great way to accomplish this is to take or add some action photos. This could be you enjoying a favorite hobby, typical pastime, or regular activity; if it looks natural and shows off the things you love, you can’t go wrong!
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If you’re trying to appeal to the general masses with your profile bio, you’re likely missing out on the matches that will feel truly exciting.
When you write your bio trying to seem likable to as many people as possible, not only do you miss out on more matches, but you also just come off as boring. The swipers that are looking for something deeper will not be interested in matches that have no personality of their own.
This is why writing your bio in a way that feels more personal will be what sets you apart!
If, while filling out prompted profile sections, your first thoughts are kind of goofy replies or very specific answers, it will be much more effective to write those than to answer in a very middle-of-the-road, political way.
Your interested parties are going to be much more thrilled and enticed by your real answers than they would be by ones aimed at pleasing everyone.
Answers like these let your matches see that you know who you are and you are looking for someone that will enjoy you just being you!
Don’t try so hard
Not everyone has really exciting hobbies or a very extreme social life, and if that’s not you, don’t try to pretend that it is.
In an attempt to stand out, some people opt to embellish their day-to-day lives a bit and exaggerate their interests, but this can only end in disappointment. If you are not true to yourself in your bio, then there is no easy way for your actual perfect matches to find you.
Don’t go into online dating thinking that you have to be perfect because that is exactly how so many profiles get ignored every day. Trying to come off as something you’re not will only read as fake or like a bad sales pitch.
If you want dates that you will actually enjoy and that could lead to something more, then you shouldn’t try to start it off by stretching the truth.
If you write your interests out for what they are and are more honest about your regular routines, even if your matches embellished their own profiles, they will read yours and connect with the truth of a life they could actually click with.
Not only will you come off as unique, but you will also be rewarded with much better matches!
Set yourself apart
Even with the tips above, creating a profile that won’t fade into the background takes a lot of work.
There are so many parts to creating a dating profile where bad wording choices or poor photos can turn away your matches for good. With so little space for you to describe yourself, anything less than unique can leave you with no swipes and no matches.
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