If you’re looking for a girlfriend, probably because you’re tired of being all alone on Friday nights, then this article is for you. If you’ve tried everything else, then it’s time to go out and approach a girl. You could use different methods when approaching a girl.
1.Make eye contact with her.
Make eye contact with her. This shows that you’re confident enough in yourself to approach her, so she won’t have time to come up with excuses as to why she can’t talk. Try catching her eye from across the room — if she looks back at you and smiles, that’s your cue. If she looks away quickly, she probably isn’t interested in talking.
2.Smile at her.
If you see a girl who you find attractive, make brief eye contact with her. If she looks back at you, smile and give her a look that says “I’m interested.” After a minute or so, look away. If she doesn’t seem interested, approach another woman.
3.Start with small talk.
Small talk is how people get to know each other and feel comfortable in each other’s company. It also breaks the ice between you and your potential partner. Keep in mind that you don’t have to be best friends right away — just try to make a connection that will last into the future.
4.Here’s how to start small talk:
Say hello when you see her. When the opportunity arises, say “hello” or “hi” to the girl you want to meet. Don’t say “hey,” which can sound aggressive or informal; instead, use a more polite greeting like “hello.”
Be friendly and open when you speak to her. Make sure that your body language is open and inviting as well as your facial expression — don’t cross your arms or make any other closed-off movements as this may appear unfriendly. Be friendly but not over-the-top; it may be hard for her.
5. Find a way to talk to her.
There are many ways that you can use when approaching a girl. You can start by saying hi, or making a simple comment about the weather, or even asking for directions. Whatever your approach is, make sure it isn’t creepy (e.g., “I’ve been watching you” or “Do you come here often?”). Also, try not to sound rehearsed (e.g., “Hey, I just wanted to tell you that your hair looks really nice today.”). Remember that women can smell desperation from miles away.
Avoid getting into boring conversations. If she’s not interested in your conversation topic, she’ll start looking around and yawning; finish up the conversation as quickly as possible and move on.
6. Be confident, but not overly so.
Confidence is the number one thing that girls look for in guys. If you’re not confident, your insecurities will show when you interact with girls. Be sure of yourself and trust yourself. If you don’t, no one will. You don’t have to brag or boast, but be strong, secure, and always sure of yourself.
7. Get a friend to introduce you.
Ask a mutual friend to introduce you, so that you can make casual conversation and feel each other out before going on a date. This is good for getting to know someone without it being too awkward.
8. Avoid cheesy lines.
Cheesy lines are usually offensive and usually don’t work, so avoid them at all costs.
9. Be funny and make her laugh.
Everyone likes someone that makes them laugh, so do your best to have a sense of humor and inject some humor into your conversation with her. However, make sure that you don’t tell jokes at the expense of others or yourself because this can leave a bad impression on her.
Talk about something that interests her.
When trying to talk to a girl, ask her questions about herself and get her to talk about herself. Girls love talking about themselves! If she’s interested in poetry, read some poetry and talk about it with her.
10.Make her feel special!
There are many different ways that you can go about this, but they all have one thing in common: they make her feel special! A girl wants to feel like she is wanted by someone else and if she gets this feeling then it will make her more open to being approached by another man who might want something more serious from her later on down the road.
Don’t be someone you’re not to impress a girl. Girls are more likely to want to talk to you if you’re genuine.
12. Join a class or club.
This can be at school, work, or anywhere else you meet people. If you really like a girl, but you’re too nervous to ask her out, join some organization or club that she’s in so you can get to know her better without getting in trouble for “hanging out” with her.
13.Get to know her friends first.
It might seem counterintuitive, but if you want to win over the girl, start by winning over the people she hangs out with. If they like you, they’ll be more likely to give her good advice and encourage her to talk to you.
14.Use your surroundings.
Look around you for cues that can give you ideas for how to get into a conversation with her. If you’re at the supermarket, for example, you can say “Hi” and ask her if she thinks pineapple actually goes well on pizza (or whatever). If there’s something happening around you that can give you an excuse to talk to her, use it.