Have you ever wondered how to be interesting to women? You’re not alone. This is one of the most common questions I hear from guys all over the world. While I can’t help you out with every guy’s personal opinion, I can let you know what women find attractive in guys and give you some common mistakes to avoid. Then it’s up to you to test these things out.
Seek out your own adventures, and pursue your own interests. Don’t just sit around waiting for her to call, or for an invitation to come along on some adventure that she’s planning. Being a “Yes Man” is boring and unattractive.
Women don’t want to be the center of a man’s universe; they want to be one piece of it.
2.Be confident, but not cocky.
Confidence means knowing who you are and what you want, without being arrogant or self-centered. You should be proud of yourself, but if you’re too full of yourself, women will see that as insecurity — because deep down, you know that you’re not as great as you say you are.
3.Have goals and interests outside yourself.
Have goals and interests outside yourself. Women are naturally attracted to men who have strong interests outside of themselves. They don’t have to be “masculine” activities like hunting or sports — in fact, most women aren’t interested in those things anyway! But it helps if you can talk about something other than your job or your relationship status (or lack thereof).
4.Tell great stories.
If you listen to someone telling a story, you’ll notice that they tend to talk about something that happened to them or people they know. This isn’t a coincidence. Stories about your own life make it easy for people to relate and respond.
5.Set your standards high.
You have the power to choose who you want to be with, so be specific and choose a woman that you really find attractive. Women appreciate when a man has standards and won’t settle for less. This is a great way to stand out from the rest of the men that are chasing her around and making their intentions known.
6. Give her space.
Women like a man who is strong and confident enough to give her space without feeling threatened or jealous. A good conversation where you both can be yourself is important in any relationship, but don’t be afraid to give her space if she needs it. If she’s not interested, it’s best to know sooner rather than later, so don’t feel bad if she doesn’t want to talk to you all the time. The right girl will come along eventually and appreciate your independence!
7.Be honest with her about your intentions and feelings toward her.
Be honest with yourself first before being honest with others; if you’re not sure what your intentions are or how much effort you want to put into this relationship.
8.Find a common interest.
If you don’t have anything in common with a girl, it will be hard to form a relationship with her. Look for the things that make you both unique and form a bond over them.
9.Don’t be too much of a follower.
A guy who always agrees with a girl may seem like he has no opinion, and thus is not very interesting to her.
10.Be willing to compromise.
Part of being an interesting person is being able to understand someone else’s point of view. If you take the time to listen and compromise, it will help you form stronger relationships with people around you, including women.
11. Good manners go a long way.
Always remember to thank your date and follow up with her afterward. Be considerate of others and do not speak ill of them or gossip about them behind their backs. When you see someone you want to get to know better, introduce yourself and ask her name. Later, repeat her name back to her so she knows that you remember it.
12.Don’t badmouth your exes, but don’t talk about the good times you had with them either.
Talking about your exes can be a real downer when meeting someone new.
You may have had a few relationships, and that’s fine, but you don’t want to talk about how it didn’t work out with the last person in great detail.
The same goes for talking too much about your current love life. Sure, you might be having relationship issues, but this isn’t something you want to talk about all the time. Save those stories for your best friends over a glass of wine or two.
13.Keep up your hygiene.
Every girl likes a guy who is well-groomed, so make sure you clean up nicely. This doesn’t mean you have to wear a suit and tie to look good, because girls like casual clothes as much as formal ones, but you need to be presentable. Make sure your clothes are clean and smell nice (but not overpowering), and make sure that you take regular showers. A lot of girls love the smell of a guy who smells like soap; it makes them feel safe and protected.
14.Be positive and happy.
Women love it when men are friendly and approachable. If you want to be more interesting to women, try being more friendly. When you’re out in public, smile at the people around you. Say “hello” and “goodbye” to people you see on the street. And be open and available when another woman tries to start up a conversation with you. Being friendly makes you more interesting because it shows that you’re an outgoing person who wants to get along with other people.
15.Don’t be too available.
Women love mystery and intrigue. Don’t jump at every chance to see her or talk to her. Instead, let her be the one to initiate contact. Being too available makes you seem desperate and unappealing.
Takeaway: Women are complicated so it can be difficult to know how to be interesting to them.