You want to read a woman’s body language, but how do you go about it? It can be confusing because some women put on a front, not wanting to show their true emotions. This makes reading female body language more difficult. How do you know what her actual body language is saying?
1.Look for signs of attraction.
If she likes what she sees, her pupils will dilate and she won’t be able to stop looking at you. You may notice that she gives you more devious looks and smiles than normal, and looks away when you catch her staring. These are all good signs, so consider approaching her if this is the case.
2.Consider how she interacts with others.
If she tends to treat everyone the same way — smiling at them, touching them affectionately — then there may be nothing “special” about the way she treats you; it might just be her personality to be friendly to everyone. However, if she seems much more forward with you than with others around her — touching your arm and laughing at your jokes — then it could mean that she’s interested in something more than friendship.
3.Draw conclusions based on body movement.
Watch her mouth and lips. They may be telling you more than you think. If she’s licking her lips, it could mean she’s interested; if they’re pressed together tightly, it probably means she’s angry or annoyed with something. Also watch for signs she may be hiding something from you — like biting her lip or looking away while she talks to you.
Observe her hands. If they’re clasped tightly together, it’s likely that she feels nervous or uncomfortable in your presence. If her hands are open and relaxed, it probably means that she’s feeling comfortable with you, even if she doesn’t know you very well yet.
4.Gauge the woman’s proximity to you.
One of the best ways to understand her interest level is by gauging her proximity to you. If she is close enough for you to touch and makes no effort to move away from you, it could be a signal of attraction. If she is leaning towards you, this may be another signal of attraction.
5.Analyze her overall mannerisms.
The first step is to analyze her overall mannerisms. Look for cues that indicate she might be interested in you or not interested at all. If she is expressing “open” body language — standing with her arms uncrossed, fidgeting with her hair, holding eye contact — then you might have a chance with her. However, if she’s exhibiting classic “closed” body language — standing with her arms crossed, looking away from you, avoiding eye contact — then she might not be receptive to your advances.
6.Look for signs of physical attraction.
If the woman is physically attracted to you, then there might be some positive signs happening in her body language. She might lean forward when talking to you (or lean back if you’re taller than her), fidget with her shirt buttons or fix her hair while talking to you.
7.Consider her personality.
If she’s generally very confident, smiling, energetic and open toward others, then she might be more likely to show her feelings in her body language. If a woman is normally more shy or reserved around people she doesn’t know well, then she may be more hesitant to show enthusiasm or friendliness through gestures.
8.The Eyes Have It
Watch how she looks at you. If a woman is interested in you, she will likely hold eye contact with you more often than normal. If she shyly looks away when you notice her staring at you, it’s a sign that she likes what she sees.
9. Interact with her while with friends.
If a woman is interested in you, she will interact with you even if she is surrounded by friends. She might lean towards you when talking to other people or continue looking at you when someone else is speaking to her. If a woman has one foot pointed towards you when standing with friends or sitting at a bar, it’s possible that she’s interested in you or wants to get your attention.
10.Every Smile Tells a Story
A genuine smile occurs when the orbicularis oculi muscles (muscles around the eyes) contract, producing “crow’s feet.” A fake smile will not produce crow’s feet. If you look closely at someone smiling and see no crow’s feet, then it is likely that the smile is fake.
11.Watch for hair fiddling.
Women often touch their hair when they’re around someone they like — they might twirl it around their finger, play with the ends, touch their neck with it, or run their hands through it. If someone’s doing this while talking to you and making eye contact, it’s almost certainly a sign of attraction.
12.Notice her head
Notice the direction of her head. If her head leans back when you lean forward, she is likely not interested in you. If it tilts up toward you, she may be inviting you to kiss her.
The most obvious way to tell how a woman feels about you is to look at her facial expressions. If she is smiling, that may mean she likes what she sees. If she looks unhappy, bored or frustrated, it’s likely that you aren’t making the impression you want on her.