A lot of girls play hard to get. They act coy, and make it seem like they aren’t interested in guys because they want them to chase them. But there are some red flags that can tell you that she is bad news. Here are some ways to spot a bad girl so you know what type of girl you’re dealing with.
Red Flags In A Girl’s Behavior
First, if a girl is nice to you when she meets you, it doesn’t mean anything. There are plenty of genuinely good girls out there that don’t act like they’re trying to get something from you.
Next, watch out for girls who make excuses not to meet up with you. Maybe they changed their mind and they just won’t tell you why. Or maybe they’re telling you one thing but doing another. And finally, look out for girls who are flaky and disappear without notice. A girl who is too busy or can’t find the time to hang out with you probably isn’t worth your time anyways.
Red Flags In Her Friendships
If she is constantly hanging out with guys that you suspect are bad influences, then she could be bad news.
Look out for the girls in her life that she seems to cling to and trust more than your girlfriend does. She might be keeping them around because they provide an escape from a situation with you.
If she has a lot of male friends and female friends, the two types of friends might not be spending time together often. In fact, if the two types of friends don’t seem to spend time together often, it could be a red flag.
If her male friends are mostly older than her, it’s possible that she is into older men. If you find out this is true, then you will know that she is up to no good and deserves your suspicions.
Red Flags In Her Social Media
If she is constantly posting pictures of herself, that’s a big sign. If she has no pictures of her family and friends but all of her pictures are of herself, or if there are lots of selfies, then that means she loves the attention from guys and likes the idea of being on camera.
If you see her posting about how much she loves being single and living on her own, it’s another warning sign. There’s nothing wrong with loving your independence but girls who love to be by themselves usually have a very different kind of life than you’re looking for in a partner.
If she has tons of friends on social media but you don’t know any of them, then that could be a red flag. If they’re just randoms she doesn’t know in real life, then it might not be worth pursuing.
Another red flag to watch out for is girls who post their location too often. Some girls like to announce where they are when they aren’t trying to find someone or hook up with someone so they can feel safe to do so without fear of judgment from people around them. But if you’re looking for something more serious than hooking up, this can take away some romance from the relationship
Red Flags In Her Appearance
A girl who has a bad reputation is one to watch out for. Make sure that you are on the lookout for these signs of a girl with a bad reputation.
1) Her eyes tend to be bloodshot and glassy.
2) She’s always wearing dark clothing or makeup.
3) She doesn’t take care of her appearance, so it’s messy, smelly, and dirty.
4) The clothes she wears are too small or too big for her body type.
5) Whenever she talks to you, she talks about herself and never about what you’re talking about.
6) She doesn’t make eye contact with you when you’re talking to her.
7) She looks like she’s trying to hard to impress you with how sexy she is from the way she talks and acts around other guys but not around you.
Red Flags In Her Actions
If she is flirting with you, she will do it at her own pace. She isn’t going to jump on you and start making out with you the second that you ask her for her number. If this happens, she probably doesn’t respect your boundaries.
If she gets mad when you tell her no, she probably has a problem with being told “no” by men. This woman is not worth your time or energy.
If she makes excuses for why she can’t hang out with you because of work or school, make a mental note that this excuse may be used in the future to get more time off of work and school than you are expecting.
If a girl says “I don’t drink,” but clearly has been drinking alcohol, then chances are that there is something wrong with this girl. “I don’t drink” is usually code for “I am not interested in spending time with you sober.”
Conclusion
Although we’re all looking for the perfect girl, the girl who is innocent and sweet and caring, the perfect girl is a rare find. So how do you know when a girl is someone you should be watching out for? Here are 9 signs that she isn’t as innocent as she seems.