When a man wants to be in an exclusive relationship with you, he will often make his feelings known through subtle but clear signs that say “I’m interested in taking our relationship to the next level.” Other times, he may not be very subtle. Read on to learn common signs a man wants to be in an exclusive relationship with you.
1.He calls you his girlfriend.
This is a sign that he likes you, and it’s also a sign that he isn’t going anywhere anytime soon. If he sees you as a long-term prospect, then he won’t hesitate to let you know that you’re the only one for him.
2.They are eager to go out on dates.
When a man wants an exclusive relationship with you, he will make spending time with you a priority. The last thing he wants to do is blow his chances with you by neglecting your needs and making something else more important than spending time with you. He won’t be making plans with other people when he knows that he has plans with you or wants to make plans with you!
3.They want to know more about you.
If someone is into you, they will make an effort to get to know you better. They will ask more personal questions about your life and your family, like how many siblings do you have? What type of work do your parents do? What is your favorite childhood memory? Do you have any pets? These questions aren’t just idle small talk; he or she is trying to build a connection with you.
4.He asks you a lot of questions about yourself.
If a man is interested in getting to know you better it’s likely that he’ll ask you a lot of questions about yourself and your life. He may do this subtly by asking leading questions or directly by asking “what do you look for in a relationship” or “what are your goals for the future.” Again, this is just an indication of how interested he is in getting to know you better.
5. He introduces you to friends and family.
If your man is making an effort to integrate you into his social life, then that’s a great sign that he wants you to be a part of his life in the long run. If he takes you out on dates with his friends, then that’s also a really good sign!
6.He brings up the idea of being exclusive
A man who wants to be exclusive with you won’t want to waste his time on someone else. He’ll bring up the topic of being exclusive, and if it comes up naturally between the two of you, then there’s no harm done if you ask him what it means to him since everyone has a different definition of exclusivity.
7. He texts you on the regular.
There’s a fine line between checking in to say hello and texting so much that you’re annoying. If he likes you and wants to be exclusive, he’ll keep his focus on you and make sure that you know he isn’t interested in anyone else but you.
8. You’re a part of his plans.
A man who wants to date you long-term will want to integrate you into every aspect of his life. If he introduces you to his family and friends, it’s because he wants them to know who you are and thinks of them as important people in his life. He will want to include you in all of his plans and activities because he values your opinion and wants your input on decisions he makes.
9. He tries to impress you.
He will try to impress you by telling you about his accomplishments or even bragging about what he does for a living. He might tell you about his car, his house and everything that is related to material things. But when a man is truly in love, he will not only show you off to the world, but tell everyone how great you are.
10. He doesn’t want to hook up with other people.
You can tell a lot about a man by how he treats other people when it comes to hooking up with them. If he outright refuses to hook up or flirt with other women, even if they are throwing themselves at him, then it shows that he has eyes only for you.
11. He makes an effort to hang out in person.
If he wants to make things exclusive, he won’t be okay with only seeing you once a month. He’ll want to take you out for dinner or bring you into his life in some other way, because he’ll want to show off how awesome you are and how lucky he is to have found someone like you.
12. You’re in each other’s social media bios.
It’s never just “boyfriend/girlfriend,” it’s always “my boyfriend,” or “my girlfriend.” Because he wants everyone to know that he is taken and by whom.
13. He goes with you to events and parties without hesitation or complaint.
If he doesn’t want to be seen with you or wants nothing to do with your social life and family, then consider it a red flag. If he enjoys being around your friends and family, it’s an indication of his feelings for you and that he wants the people most important to you to accept him into your life as well.
Men that have a desire to be in an exclusive relationship will not go as far as to ask you out, unless they have already established that you are interested. They will respect your personal space and let you make the first move. These men, who like the thrill of the chase, will also want to pursue you even more once the boyfriend or girlfriend label has been applied.