Signs that a guy is loyal are hard to come by. However, if you know some basic signs of a loyal man, it can make your life easier. Here are a few tips on what guys need in order to be loyal and true.
1. He shows how much he cares about you by just being around you.
Sometimes when your man is doing simple things like watching a movie with you, it means more than him taking you out on a fancy date. The fact that he would rather come over to watch a movie than go hang out with his friends shows how much he really does care about you, and how committed he is to maintaining your relationship.
2. He never gives you reason to doubt him.
He’s always honest with you, and in the few cases where he might accidentally lie, he immediately tells you the truth once he realizes it and apologizes for his mistake.
It means that he’s not afraid of your reaction to the truth, even if it might be negative or upset you. It also means that he knows how important it is to have trust and honesty in a relationship.
3. He doesn’t flirt with other girls even when you’re not around.
If your guy flirts in front of you with other women, then that probably means that he isn’t completely loyal to you… or at least not completely committed to keeping his commitment. Sure, girls can flirt too, but if he flirts with girls in front of you, then there’s a good chance that he does it behind your back as well.
He only has eyes for you. Guys who are truly committed and loyal to their girlfriends don’t gaze at other women all the time… even if they do look at them. He might give them a quick glance once in a while, but if he is truly loyal to you, then he won’t be checking out every girl who walks by
4. He spends time with your family and friends.
Being loyal is not just about being honest, but about being supportive in every aspect of your life. If a man truly loves you, he will want to meet your parents, siblings and closest friends. A guy who makes the effort to spend time with the people who are important to you is definitely a keeper.
5. He won’t talk about his exes with you.
If your boyfriend talks about old girlfriends, chances are that he is still interested in them as well. The same holds true if he constantly compares you to other girls. If he is always pointing out their qualities and their flaws, it indicates that he is still interested in these women, and that could make him less committed to you.
6. He is thoughtful and considerate of your feelings.
In order for a relationship to work, both people have to be aware of the others’ feelings and needs. If your boyfriend doesn’t take time out of his day to check up on you or make sure you’re feeling okay, then chances are that he doesn’t care about where your relationship is going
Section: If he has a female friend, he’s always totally up front about it and tells you everything about their relationship so that there is no room for suspicion or jealousy in your mind later on.
If you’ve been dating for a while and you’ve met her, he’ll make sure that you know his relationship with her is strictly platonic. If they only talk on the phone (or text), he’ll be open about their conversations and let you know that nothing romantic is going on. If one or two of these things aren’t happening, it could be a sign that he’s hiding something from you.
7.He is willing to compromise.
One of the most important things in a relationship is being able to figure out how to compromise and make choices that work best for both people involved. If he is willing to put your needs first and listen to your concerns, it’s a good sign that he’s going to be a good partner.
8.He gives you space.
It’s common for couples who are infatuated with each other at the start of their relationship to want to spend all their time together. However, it’s also important for each person in a relationship to have time for themselves and their own interests as well. If he doesn’t get angry when you want some time apart, it shows that he understands the importance of having time away from each other and values your independence.
9. He doesn’t feel the need to keep secrets from you.
He doesn’t have anything to hide because he knows that there’s no point in lying since the truth will always come out. He lets you know what’s going on in his life even if it makes him look bad because he doesn’t want any secrets between the two of you.
10. He listens to what you have to say instead of ignoring your doubts.
When he’s being unfaithful or about to be, he’ll try to convince you that everything is fine even though it isn’t. If he listens to what you have to say and tries his best to make things work, it means that he’s trustworthy and loyal.
In short, the reason you should demand loyalty is because it’s earned by demonstrating it in return. If a man never does anything to show he cares about you, why are you so quick to lay your trust at his feet? Think about it: signs of a disloyal man are more obvious than you may think. The next time you find yourself fretting over what he’s up to behind your back, ask yourself this: do I really want a guy who isn’t trustworthy? And if the answer is no, just walk away.