For a man, pretty much every woman has some dealbreakers and that applies to women as well. Any person would have dealbreakers for someone else. Nevertheless, this part would be about the dating dealbreakers women have in general and it’s about men. So what are those? Here goes–
1.Men who are not ambitious
When men aren’t ambitious, they’re less likely to be successful, because they don’t try hard enough to make something of themselves. This means that they won’t have the financial resources or power that can be attractive to women.
2. Men who don’t want children
We were surprised to see how many women have dealbreakers that have to do with having kids — both women who weren’t interested in men who already had kids and those who weren’t interested in men who didn’t want any kids of their own.
3. Women don’t want to be lied to about finances ever.
I think the most common dating dealbreaker is financial lying. It is not uncommon for women to learn later in the dating process that their dates lied about their job, salary or possessions. Women can find out a man has lied by doing a Google search, asking him to show proof of what he has told her or simply realizing it because his stories don’t line up. If a woman finds out a man has been financially dishonest with her, she will often break things off with him immediately.
Why is this such an important dealbreaker? Because women don’t want to be lied to about finances ever. They don’t want to be misled about money because finances are extremely important in marriage and if you can’t be honest about your current situation then what makes you think you can be honest with her in the future? If a man is financially dishonest early on in the relationship
4.He’s a bad kisser.
If your guy is bad at kissing, he’s probably bad at everything else too. Not only is this physically unpleasant but it’s also just plain awkward. Find someone who can do it right the first time around.
5. Bad conversationalist
Conversation is key to knowing someone on a deeper level. If your guy can’t hold an intellectual conversation with you or tell a joke without laughing at himself, it might be time to move on to someone else.
6.He’s too needy
There’s nothing wrong with wanting attention from your partner, but if he always needs reassurance that you love him then it can get a little tired after awhile
7. He’s indecisive in restaurants and bars.
Going on a date can be stressful enough without having to deal with someone who doesn’t know what they want. One woman told me how annoyed she got when her date asked her what she wanted to eat several times before finally choosing a restaurant.
8.He asks you a million questions about your life but doesn’t offer you any info about himself.
Sure, you should ask questions and get to know each other, but if he seems uninterested in learning about you, it could be a sign that he’s not very interested in making a connection.
9. He talks about his ex too much.
Guys, don’t get worked up, but this was the number one dealbreaker for women across all the age ranges. If a guy is still talking about his ex on the first few dates or even after you’ve been dating for a while, then it’s clear that he hasn’t moved on and is still hung up on her. I know this because I have a friend who has dated two guys in a row like this. She tells me she gets fed up with men who can’t stop talking about their former partners. And they are not only talking about their past relationships but also telling her stories of what their ex used to like, how she used to get mad at them, etc. In other words, they are still not over their last relationship and comparing you with their ex and probably won’t be in the future.
10.His room is a mess.
It doesn’t matter if your place is small or large, filthy or clean — it matters how you treat it. If you can’t keep up with your laundry, dishes and general tidiness, chances are you’re not going to take care of her either.
11. Poor manners
Whether it’s at home or out in public, table manners are important – even if it’s just for a first date at the local diner. Sloppiness and poor etiquette aren’t charming quirks – they’re downright appalling.
12.No sense of humor
We know it’s hard to be funny, so we won’t expect you to always be cracking jokes. But if you can’t take a joke or make a dumb pun every once in a while, what is there really to talk about? And seriously, not everyone may find the same things funny that you do.
13. He isn’t well read on current events.
I can overlook him knowing nothing about fashion or celebrities, but if he’s oblivious to politics and world events, then I’m done.
14.He doesn’t have a plan for the future.
Don’t get me wrong. I don’t need a guy to talk about marriage on the first date, but if he doesn’t have any plans or goals for himself, I’m not interested in pursuing anything further with him.
A guy who has no direction in his life is a massive turn-off for me. I’m looking for someone who likes to stay busy and has some sort of passion that they’re working towards achieving. To me, that’s very attractive!
He goes out too much/drinks too much/parties too much.
Women have a lot of dealbreakers they need to watch out for when dating men. Sometimes, checking off all of the boxes just isn’t going to happen, but that doesn’t mean that you can’t date him anyway. However, it is something to know and to be aware of.