You’re holding onto hope. You just don’t understand why he or she left you. You’re asking yourself, “What can I do to get them back?” The truth is that there are always signs your ex will come back. Let’s walk through some of these factors one by one.
1. A sign that your ex will come back is if he keeps in close contact with you.
If your ex is keeping a close eye on everything you do, it means he probably still cares about you. If he seems to want to know what’s happening in your life, where you’re going and who you’re hanging out with, chances are that he still has feelings for you.
2. Another sign your ex will come back is if he keeps up with you through social media.
If he likes all your selfies on Instagram or Facebook, he’s trying to show that he’s keeping up with your life. He might even send direct messages to see what you’re doing or if you’re dating anyone.
3.He wants to be friends… for now.
This is a classic maneuver from someone who still loves their ex and wants them back. They’ll offer friendship as a way of keeping in contact in the hope that things will work out later on down the line.
4. If your ex starts showing up where you are frequently, it’s a good indicator he wants to win back your heart.
He might turn up at your favorite restaurant or bar or even at a party that he knows you will be attending. This is how he tries to make sure that he will cross paths with you. He then tries to make these meetings as casual as possible so that both of you can slowly rebuild your friendship until he gets another chance to ask for another date with you.
5. He’s trying to make himself look good in front of you.
An ex that wants to get back together will try to make himself look good in front of you again — old habits die hard. This can take the form of dressing better or working out more often so that he looks great when his path crosses with yours again.
6. It’s a good sign your ex will return if he apologizes and takes responsibility for the breakup.
This means that he’s willing to admit when he’s wrong and not just blame everything on you. Men don’t typically take responsibility for their actions when they’re breaking up with someone — they tend to make excuses or place blame on their partner. So if he says something like “I’m sorry I broke up with you” take this as a positive signal.
7. The relationship ended without warning or explanation.
If you were in a long-term relationship and your ex ended things without providing any reasoning, it’s likely that he’ll come back. If he was the one who ended things — and there was no logical explanation for the breakup — it’s a good sign that he’ll come back to you.
8. He tries to contact you during his “no contact” period.
When people break up, they usually set a period of time where they’re not allowed to talk or text each other because they need time to heal from the heartbreak and move on from the relationship. An ex who tries to call or text you during this no-contact period is trying to test the waters to see if you’re still interested in him or if you’ve moved on without him after the breakup. This is a clear sign that he’s thinking about getting back.
9. You still have frequent physical contact.
If you notice that you still have frequent physical contact, such as cuddling, holding hands and kissing each other goodbye, these are all signs that your ex wants to keep these aspects of your relationship alive.
10. They bring up the idea of getting back together.
If your ex tells you directly – or even indirectly – that they miss you and wish that things had worked out differently between the two of you, this is an excellent sign. It means they’re not just thinking about you, but thinking about how great it would be if things were different.
11. They tell you how much they miss you.
One of the first signs that an ex might come back is if they tell you how much they miss you. If they flat out tell you this, then it means that there’s still some sort of emotional connection between the two of them and there’s really no other reason for why they would tell you this unless they were planning on coming back at some point or another.
12. Your friends and family are constantly telling you that your ex misses you.
Friends and family members may tell you that they’ve seen your ex out at a bar or heard about them hitting up the club with their friends, but they never ask if you want to join them because they know that your feelings are still hurt from the breakup. This may mean that your friends and family think that your ex wants to get back together with you as well.
13. They make an effort to improve themselves after a breakup.
hen people break up with someone, they often regret it once the dust has settled. They may realize that what they had was actually pretty good and something worth fighting for. If your ex makes an effort to improve themselves after a breakup, it’s a sign they want to get you back.
By taking some time to consider these different signs your ex will come back you can start evaluating your own situation. Have you been doing everything right by showing your ex that they miss you still? There is also no harm in communicating with your ex again as well because this may be a sign they want to reconcile. But make sure you are going about things the right way, and that you don’t cause more problems between the two of you.