I asked a few of my guy friends if they would be willing to share what they find attractive in a woman with our female visitors. I got some very interesting answers. Some of them might surprise you, while others might be just what you’d expect.
1. Eye Contact
Men love it when you look at them. There’s a reason why models are told to stare into the camera. You don’t have to be a model though; you just have to know how to make eye contact with a guy and look sexy while doing it. If a guy is talking to you and you want him to feel attracted, then make eye contact and smile at him without looking away until he breaks eye contact first. He will love that you are flirting with him using your eyes.
2.A Beautiful Smile
Men love it when they see a woman smiling. It makes them think that she is having fun in life and that she is happy. A man wants to be the cause of a woman’s happiness so if he sees her smiling at him, he will work hard to make sure that he can keep on making her smile every day for the rest of their lives together.
3.Confidence
Confidence is key when trying to get the attention of men. It doesn’t matter where you are or what you are doing, if you have confidence, you will get the attention from the men around you. Having confidence will also make other women jealous because they can tell that you are confident.
4.Humor
From the time we were small, we were taught that good girls don’t laugh too loudly or too often, and certainly not at the wrong things. But we’re breaking out of our restrictions and having a blast. We are not going to be like the women in those old movies who were constantly swooning and needing to be rescued. We’re going to make you laugh so hard that your stomach hurts. We want you to be able to sit back and enjoy the view.
5.Kindness
Women have been taught since childhood to be kind to others, but it’s something that’s very important to us even as adults. We believe in being compassionate toward other people, and we like men who feel the same way. If we see that you are patient and willing to help someone in need, we may just decide that you’re the man for us.
6. Sex Appeal
Sex appeal starts with clothing. Some women may have low self-esteem, but they don’t have to wear baggy clothes or sweatpants all the time. If you want to get a guy’s attention, get rid of the track suit and dress up more often. If you are comfortable in your own skin, you will feel more sexy and confident around men which will also increase your sex appeal.
Once you have the right clothes, you need to learn how to be attractive in them. One quality that all men love is confidence; go out into the world with your head held high. A good way to gain confidence is by looking good about yourself. Make sure your hair is clean and combed and that your body looks nice in your clothes. No one wants to date someone who doesn’t take pride in their appearance.
7.Intelligence
Men are attracted to women who have their life in order, who are confident and independent, and who are intelligent enough to know what they want out of life.
8. A Positive Attitude
A positive attitude is one of the most attractive traits a woman can have. Not only does it make her more enjoyable to be around, but it also gives off the impression that she might be an easy person to date and that she wouldn’t be demanding or high maintenance. A positive attitude makes any situation better and any person happier. In fact, many women often don’t realize how their negative attitudes are pushing away the men who may be interested in them.
9.Effortless Beauty
A woman who is able to capture this effortless beauty and radiate it with confidence will catch the attention of almost any man in her vicinity. How many times have we heard, “She’s beautiful, but that’s not all she has going for her,” or “She’s cute when she smiles,” or “There’s something sexy about her.” These are all synonyms for effortless beauty.
10.Attentiveness
Men appreciate when they feel like they’re being listened to. It’s important that you pay attention to what he’s saying and respond accordingly. Ask him questions, and be engaged in the conversation. Most importantly, look him in the eye when he’s talking, and nod your head to show that you’re listening and interested in what he has to say.
11.Independent, but not too independent
You want someone who will make space for you in his life, but not someone so needy that he makes no space for himself or anyone else. Relationships are about give and take and neither of you should ever forget that. It’s fine to be a strong woman and know what you want in life, but don’t let your independence become arrogance or selfishness.
12.Playful and silly
Many women try to be funny around men in the hope that the man will see her as someone he could be with, but end up coming across as a clown instead of a woman he finds attractive. When you feel yourself slipping into this way of interacting or come across it when meeting others, take a step back and make sure you’re being your authentic self. If you truly have a playful and silly side, let that shine through when it feels right – not because you think it will give you an edge.
In the end, it’s a pretty straight forward equation; when it comes to attracting men, be attractive and keep it simple. We could spend all day coming up with complex charts and theories on the subject but at the end of the day it always comes down to the same two simple things: Do you make him feel good about himself? And does he find you physically attractive? If you can answer yes to these two questions, you’re likely going to attract a lot of men into your life.