Are you dating a man who isn’t worth your time? Perhaps you’re dating multiple men who are all wrong for you. Or maybe you’re single and want to avoid these types of men all together. Let’s examine some key types of men who aren’t worth your time.
1. The man who only wants to see you when it’s convenient for him.
He wants to see you when it’s convenient for him and that’s just about it. If your man only wants to see you for an hour here and there, then he isn’t worth your time. This is a major red flag. Say goodbye to this man and make sure you aren’t the kind of woman who puts up with something like this.
2. The guy who still talks about his ex-girlfriend.
It’s a red flag when he tells you about all the great qualities his ex had and how amazing she was, especially if he says that right after you meet him. He’s probably doing this to pump up his own ego so you’ll like him more.
3.The guy who brags non-stop.
If he’s bragging about his accomplishments early on in a relationship, it means that he thinks highly of himself and not necessarily anyone else. Also, this is probably going to get old fast.
4.The guy who spends most of his time at the bar.
This means that he’s not ready for a serious relationship or is still hung up on an ex-girlfriend (or both). It also means that he likes to party and binge drink, which is never a good sign for someone looking for a serious relationship.
5. The man who can’t stop flirting with other women … especially when you’re standing right there next to him.
He makes inappropriate comments about other women in front of you, and he’s always staring at them when they walk by. Even worse? He can’t stop flirting with them, even though he knows how much it bothers you.
6.The one who doesn’t listen
You know what we’re talking about: He doesn’t remember the little things that mean so much to you, like your favorite food or the names of your best friends. He may even forget important dates like your birthday or the anniversary of when the two of you first met.
7. The man who spends all of his time on his phone and won’t put it down long enough to talk to you.
This is a big one. If he’s constantly texting and checking his phone, he doesn’t have time for you. He doesn’t have time to enjoy the moment with you or even pay attention to what you’re saying, because he’s too busy worrying about what’s in his pocket.
8. The man with no job, plans or goals for the future.
You don’t want to date someone who hasn’t ever set goals for himself in life. You don’t want to date someone who doesn’t want anything out of life at all, because that means that he won’t be able to provide anything for you. You don’t want him to just sit around and be complacent with the way things are right now. You want him to actually strive for something better, so he can actually become the man that you know he can be.
9. The man who doesn’t laugh at your jokes
It’s one thing if you’re terrible at telling jokes (although there are some men out there who will appreciate even your worst efforts). It’s another thing entirely when he’s just not laughing at your jokes because he thinks they aren’t funny because they’re coming from a woman. Hint: They’re funny because they’re coming from you!
10. A Man Who Never Puts You First
If a man doesn’t put you first, then he isn’t worth it. He is self-centered and cares a lot about himself. If he puts his friends first, then he isn’t worth your time. A man should always put you first if he really loves you and wants to be with you forever.
11. The Man Who Is Too Protective
If a man is too protective, then it means that he doesn’t trust you and isn’t sure if he wants to be with you forever. He doesn’t want anyone near you because he thinks they will take you away from him or something bad might happen to you when someone else is around. This shows that he isn’t ready for a relationship, or that he has been hurt before and can’t trust anyone anymore.
12. The guy who doesn’t seem interested in your life.
Every conversation is about him and his interests. He’s not even asking you questions about yourself, but rather telling you about himself nonstop. If he isn’t interested in getting to know you, then he doesn’t really care about a relationship with you. Who wants to be involved with a guy who could care less about your own interests and passions? Not me!
13.The guy who can’t talk about the future.
If you don’t see eye-to-eye on the future of your relationship, then there’s no point in wasting each other’s time. If he says he doesn’t want anything serious or doesn’t know if he wants kids and you want those things, then you shouldn’t waste any more of each other’s time.
14. The guy who’s only into hooking up.
There is nothing wrong with this type of behavior if that’s what you’re looking for, but know that he isn’t going to stick around long-term. He might also be stringing you along with a few other girls and only wants to hook up when it suits him. Don’t waste your time on a man who isn’t worth it.
So, folks, it turns out that you’ll be much better off keeping your eyes peeled for the type of men with potential, who can offer you more than just a good time and short-lived romance. And when you do find someone who might be promising, don’t hesitate – make sure to get to know them better.