What’s the number one thing that guys always say they want to improve on with women? How to Talk to Women. Although being a good and interesting conversationalist is crucial to interacting with women, it can often be hard to know where to begin. In fact, even though you might feel like you can talk to a woman, ask one what she would change about your conversation and the odds are she’ll tell you that you need readjusting in your interactions.
1.Be respectful.
Don’t say anything that would make her uncomfortable or that would make you look like a jerk. Don’t talk about things that are too personal or sexual. Avoid talking about religion or politics because they can get really heated really fast.
2.Pay attention to body language.
Women will often feel uncomfortable if you are too physically close, stare at her breasts or butt, or invade her personal space. Look into her eyes while speaking, and give her some room — a foot or two of distance is best.
3.Make eye contact
A girl won’t know that you’re interested in talking to her unless you look right at her and make it obvious!
4.Smile.
A warm, genuine smile will help you appear more relaxed and approachable. Don’t force it though; if you’re uncomfortable, she’ll be able to tell.
5.Approach her.
Just say “Hi” and give your name. The worst thing she can do is not respond, which she probably won’t do if she’s alone anyway, so don’t be nervous about it.
Don’t try to pick up the girl at the club who is off in her own world, dancing with her girlfriends or scanning the room for guys to hit on her. Strike up a conversation with a girl who looks approachable and willing to talk.
6.Put yourself out there.
If she brings up something you don’t know much about, be honest and say so, but then try to find out more about it by asking her questions – show her that you’re interested in what she’s saying. Listen to what she says and try to remember the details so they can come up again later in the conversation. If she says something funny, ask her where she came up with it or how long it took her to think of it.
7.Be genuinely happy to see her.
If a woman feels like she’s not a priority to you, she will have little interest in being your girlfriend.
8.Ask her questions.
If you’ve spotted a girl reading a book you’ve read or watching a TV show you like, ask her about it! She’ll be glad that you’ve noticed something unique about her and that you want to learn more about it.
9.Have an interesting conversation topic ready.
Talking to women at bars can be intimidating, especially if it’s crowded and noisy. To avoid awkward silences, think of some things to talk about before you approach someone new. If you’ve got something interesting to talk about, then the two of you will have something to discuss straight away, which always helps break the ice! Interesting topics include travel, books and films and current affairs. Make sure that you’re bringing
10.Pay her a compliment.
You don’t have to wait for the woman to say something to give her a compliment. Compliments are a great way to let the other person know that you like them or notice them.
Try to think of a compliment that is unique and that you can relate to the other person. It will mean more if you can relate it specifically to the person’s interests, personality, or accomplishments. This will also show her that you pay attention and are interested in her as an individual.
If all else fails, you can always give her a generic compliment like “you look nice” or “that looks good on you”. Don’t worry about over-doing it with compliments, either. Most girls love getting attention from guys, even if it is just for their looks.
11,Remember details and follow up on them.
It sounds obvious, but if someone tells you something about themselves — like an upcoming vacation or a new job — try to remember it and bring it up later. This demonstrates that you were paying attention and are thinking about them. A simple “So how was that trip?” is all you need.
12.Don’t interrupt her when she’s speaking.
This rule applies to all conversations, but especially when you’re talking to women. In addition to showing respect for what she has to say, it also gives you time to think before responding and prevents you from saying something stupid or offensive without realizing it first.
13.Talk about something that interests both of you.
Are there any topics that interest both you and the woman you’re talking to? If there are, consider talking about those topics as they can help facilitate conversation between the two of you. For example, if she mentions liking dogs and you like dogs too, ask her questions about what kind of dog she has or why she likes dogs in general. This will help make your conversation more relaxed and natural!
14.Just go for it!
There is no perfect time to talk to someone. Even if they are in the middle of something, they will probably appreciate that you came up and talked to them. You take away their boredom, and they get to meet someone new and have something else to do. You’re both winners!
Takeaway: In short: be yourself! This is the most important thing of all! Be sincere in your compliments, but don’t overdo it or she’ll think you’re weird; don’t try too hard to make her laugh or she’ll think you’re desperate; never try too hard to impress her and never act like it’s a big deal that she’s talking to you