If you’ve met a girl in person or online, it’s likely the two of you will end up corresponding over text — either because she gave you her number or you got her contact info from another source. Here’s how to tell if a girl likes you over text so you don’t have to guess when it comes to your next move.
1. She wants to keep the conversation going.
She could have ended the conversation after one or two messages, but she didn’t. It’s also possible she’s trying to keep the conversation going because she has nothing else to talk about.
2. She texts you randomly.
If she sends you a good morning text or asks how your day is going, it shows she wants to know more about you.
3.She responds quickly when you text her.
his is especially important when it comes to having a conversation over text. There is nothing worse than waiting hours for a response, even if it’s just two sentences long. She doesn’t want the conversation to end any time soon, so she responds as fast as possible to make sure it continues as long as possible.
4.She initiates conversations.
If a girl initiates the conversation, this is a major sign that she is into you. Unless you are indeed texting about something that both of you have already discussed, it is more often than not that she is initiating just so she can talk to you.
5. She compliments you.
Girls like to be complimented. However, if a girl compliments you and does it quite often (especially the things other people don’t normally compliment on), it may be her way of flirting with you. She could be complimenting your sense of humor, your looks or even the way you carry yourself.
6.She texts you about her day.
This is one of the most obvious signs that a girl likes you over text. When she makes an effort to tell you what’s going on in her life, it means she is thinking about you and wants to share her day with you.
7.She remembers things you’ve told her.
If a girl likes you, she will remember what you say and will want to know more about you. She’ll also ask your opinion on various subjects or even ask for advice.
8.She makes an effort with her replies.
If she sends you a long message back when you ask her “how was your day?” chances are she’s interested in chatting with you. She might not be interested in getting together for a date, but she wants the conversation to continue
9.She uses cute and flirtatious emojis.
That’s all there really is to say on this one! Girls just love putting smiley faces in their texts and chats. If a girl likes you, then she most definitely wants to hear from you. Why else would she use all those smiley faces?
10.She makes a point of noticing changes in your life.
You’ll probably notice it in her texts first. She’ll be asking about the new car you just bought, or the new job you just got. Maybe even the new haircut you just had done. Whatever it is, she’s noticing things that are going on with you, and she’s asking about them.
That means she cares. If a girl didn’t care about you at all, she wouldn’t bother to ask how your day was, or what you thought of the movie you saw last weekend. She does care, though — and that’s why she’s taking the time and effort to find out what’s going on with your life.
11. She has a sense of humor.
If a girl is sending long replies and funny jokes, it’s probably because she likes talking to you! She’s trying to keep your attention by making you laugh and feel comfortable talking to her.
12.She asks a lot of follow up questions.
Another good sign that someone likes you over text is that they ask follow-up questions. If they’re asking questions about your life or interests, then they want to get to know more about what matters most to you, which means that they like the idea of being in your life in general! It’s not just about getting details from one conversation; it’s about having an interest in learning more about who YOU are as a person…which means that she definitely likes something about you.
13. She sends you photos.
If she sends you photos, it’s always a good sign. She’s trying to show you the better side of her. And she’s definitely trying to get your attention and make you think about her more often.
14.She shows interest in other things you like.
She probably does this with everyone in her life, but it still means that she cares about what interests you and what makes you happy. This is especially true if she remembers your interests from previous conversations and brings them up again later on.
15.She likes your selfies.
It’s pretty clear that if she’s liking your selfies and posting comments on them, it’s because she likes you. If she didn’t, there would be no point in her doing this. She might think they’re funny or cool or interesting — but the most likely reason is that she likes you and wants to interact with you online.
16.She texts your name often.
If a girl texts your name often, it means there are things about you that draw her attention and make her think about you often. It’s not necessarily because your name is John or anything like that (because I doubt it), but because when she sees your name on her phone, she feels happy because at least one thing in her life is going right and that person is YOU!
17.She tells you she’s jealous of something that happened when she wasn’t there.
Understanding the signs a girl sends via text message takes a lot of diagnostic skills – like being able to pick apart and decode the right message. If a girl likes you, you’ll see it in the different ways you communicate back and forth over text.