Many women are looking for quality men so they can get married. But they are not sure what qualities they need to look for in an ideal marriage candidate. I have decided to write this article to share with you my ideas on how to attract high-quality, marriage-material men.
1.Do not be like women who chase men.
This is because men are attracted to women who they feel they have to work to win over. The more you pursue a man, the less he’ll want you.
Of course, this doesn’t mean you should stop talking to men entirely. You should just stay calm, cool, and collected whenever you talk with them.
It’s also important that you make yourself seem like someone worth pursuing. For example, if a man tells you that he wants a woman who’s good at math, then reply back by saying something like “I’m great at math!” or “I’m actually majoring in math!”
2.Live an interesting life.
I believe that you become the average of the five people you spend the most time with, so if you want to be around high-quality men and attract them, you must become a high-quality woman. The best way to do this is to surround yourself with people who are already doing what you want to do. If that’s traveling, then find a travel buddy or join a travel group. If it’s yoga, take classes at a studio and then go out for coffee with your fellow yogis. If it’s volunteering, join an organization or charity that needs volunteers and make friends while you’re there. Find something that interests you and get involved!
3.Embrace your femininity
While some of my clients think they have to act like “one of the guys,” I disagree completely. I know plenty of single women who are happy, successful and attractive — inside and out — but they’ve never found “the one.” That’s because they’re not presenting themselves as feminine enough for men to notice them on a romantic level. The truth is that men love women who embrace their femininity — from the clothes they wear to the way they carry themselves. So put away those baggy jeans, stop playing video games all night
4.Get over your ex-husband.
The best thing you can do to attract a great man and build a fulfilling relationship is to be genuinely comfortable being you. It starts with loving who you are and the life you’ve created for yourself. So stop looking to other people (and the universe) to validate you, make you happy, or love and cherish you. Only you can do that for yourself. It’s called self-love.
5.Go outside of what’s comfortable.
I know it’s scary because it involves taking a risk, but if you’re not willing to do this, then dating and finding a good man is going to be even more challenging and painful. Here are two ways to go outside of your comfort zone:
Look for men in places that are unexpected. If a guy approaches me at a bar or coffee shop, I assume he has an ulterior motive and isn’t interested in just getting to know me as a person. But if he approaches me at work or speaks up in class and strikes up a conversation, I will definitely pay attention.
Stop dating guys who want hookups. Enjoy being single while you’re casually dating. You don’t need to be in a serious relationship right now so take advantage of the opportunity by having fun without any strings
6.Take time to think about what you want in a man.
Create a list with the qualities and characteristics you are looking for in a man. Do not be superficial! Attracting the quality of men you deserve is more than skin deep. It’s about the content of his character. Consider the man’s values, intellect, beliefs and ability to communicate with others. If he is not where he needs to be now, does he want to get there?
If it is important for you to be married or in a committed relationship, make sure that he wants the same thing.
7.You attract the kind of men you believe you deserve.
If you want to find a good man, the first thing you need to do is believe you deserve a good man. You must get rid of any negative beliefs you have about yourself and your abilities.
Also, stop seeking the perfect man, because there isn’t one. High-quality men are not perfect. They make mistakes just like everyone else does. So stop holding yourself and other people to unreasonably high standards.
8. Be busy.
The more you have to do with your life, the less time you have to sit around, worry and obsess about a guy. The more in demand you are, the more desirable you are. Women who are always available seem desperate or unattractive. If you have other things going on in your life and other people who value your time, a man will know that he’ll need to fit into the equation if he wants to be part of your life.
9.Set standards.
If you want to attract a high-quality man, you have to set standards and stick with them no matter what. You may have heard the old saying, “A girl needs low standards.” This is true in many ways because men tend to judge women based on how well they look in their clothes. However, this does not mean that you should settle for just any guy who comes your way. You need to
10. Be approachable.
Instead of being busy or waiting for him to call, be open and accessible when you’re out and about. This means making eye contact, smiling, and saying hello while you’re out and about. If you see someone you like, smile brightly, give them a wave, or say hello.
11.Be confident
Another way you can attract high-quality men is by being confident in yourself. Men are attracted to women who are confident because confidence shows them that you know what you want and that you’re willing to go for it.
One way you can boost your self-confidence is by making sure you look your best whenever possible. Wear clothes that fit well and do your hair in a way that makes you feel beautiful. Makeup can help too, but only wear enough so that it enhances your natural beauty rather than hides it completely.
There are no hard and fast rules on how to attract “high quality” men. That’s because high-quality men are not always rigidly defined by one set standard. Some women may prefer younger men, some may prefer older men, and some may prefer financially stable men, whereas others may look for an ambitious professional who enjoys a good evening out with the girls. The key is to attract the kind of man that you find desirable. Just remember: quality outshines quantity, so focus your energy on attracting high-quality men, first and foremost.