To be blunt, if you ask a women why she doesn’t like nice guys; she’ll usually say because they don’t make her feel like a woman. The answer to this question is because women, for the most part, don’t see men as friends. They see them as sex objects. This is why conversations are so awkward at coffee shops or when walking down the street. You can talk about it all you want with women to no avail, because they live in a dream world where every man should be dreaming of her and hoping that one day she will be his girlfriend. Unfortunately for them, in real life not every man thinks about them in this way, and finds a conversation about something other than sex to be casual and fun.
1.Nice guys aren’t ambitious enough
A lot of studies have shown that women are attracted to ambition in men. While being nice isn’t necessarily a bad thing, it won’t make them appear very confident or assertive to women who want someone who takes charge and is willing to take risks in life.
2.Nice guys are too available
They’re always there, waiting for the girl to pick them. They also make it easy by being overly accommodating and giving in to whatever the woman wants. This makes you predictable and boring. Predictability is a silent killer of attraction because it kills the excitement of her seeing you (which is what she wants).
3.its a paradox because women want a man who is nice but not too nice.
The problem with being too nice is that it can backfire and ruin your relationships. You’re so focused on pleasing the other person that you forget to please yourself. You bend over backward to make sure your partner is happy, but you end up feeling resentful.
4.They don’t know how to flirt.
Let’s face it: flirting is an art form. It doesn’t come naturally to everyone, and if you’re not skilled at it, then you’re going to have some difficulty finding love. You might be able to learn to flirt with time and practice… or you might not. If you can’t figure out how to flirt, then you’ll always be overlooked for the people who can pull it off well.
5.They don’t make their intentions clear.
When I say, “make your intentions clear,” I don’t mean that you should tell someone that she’s pretty every few minutes — though she will definitely appreciate the compliment!
6.nice guys often underestimate their own value.
They don’t think they deserve to be treated well, so they accept whatever scraps the girls throw at them. We’ve all been there, but you have to realize that you’re better than that. You’re worth more than that!
7.too much niceness can make a guy seem fake.
A lot of times, nice guys will put up this front where they act as if they are great people — but that’s not really who they are. Too much niceness can make a guy seem fake. That being said, you should never feel like you need to act differently around your man just to make him happy; if you’re with a good guy, he’ll love you for who you truly are.
8.Nice guys don’t have limits.
A good rule of thumb is that if you don’t feel comfortable saying something, there’s probably a good reason you shouldn’t say it. Don’t be afraid to draw the line and set boundaries – assertive communication is vital to maintaining healthy relationships and can be a real turn-on for women.
9.Nice guys are boring.
If you’re nice all the time, you’re going to get boring fast – nobody wants that! Don’t be afraid to push the envelope every once in awhile – just don’t do anything too crazy!
10.Nice guys are too eager to please.
Women love being treated like princesses, but they don’t want someone who will let them walk all over him. It’s great to go out of your way for important people in your life, but it’s important to take care of your own needs first.
11. Nice guys don’t set boundaries.
They let the woman do whatever she wants and take advantage of him because he feels that if he says anything, then she’ll become upset with him or leave him.
12.Nice guys never call women out.
hey don’t want to be seen as mean or harsh, so they struggle with being direct and honest about their expectations.
13.Nice guys wait around and hope that good things will happen to them.
They have a passive attitude toward life. They don’t realize that they must go out and make things happen; good things don’t just happen to people who sit around and wait for them.
14. Nice guys are less likely to make bold moves or take risks.
They’re less likely to make bold moves in relationships, and they’re also more likely to be the ones friend-zoned by women.
15.Nice guys take “no” too personally.
When a woman declines a date or rejects them in any way, the nice guy feels unwanted, undesirable, and unworthy of love — even if she does not know him very well at all! This is because the nice guy doesn’t believe in himself enough to accept rejection from women as simple fact; he takes it very personally and becomes emotionally distraught.
16.Nice guys are not confident.
A man who is confident in himself will be able to approach you, ask for your number, and even flirt with you, without the need for “friendship” first. He knows he’s great and doesn’t have to preface his interactions with you by making you his friend first.
Nice guys finish last in love because the only thing worse than being a nice guy is being a manipulate, disingenuous jerk. Being nice, however, is still an effective strategy for developing deep, loving relationships. Just make sure that you’re really being nice–not pretending to be in order to get people to like you–and that you don’t get stuck in “nice guy” mode.