Are you having trouble getting a woman to respond to your texts? You’re not alone. The research shows that women do text back, it just takes on average three times longer than a man’s response time. Well let’s figure this out together.
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2. She’s taking her time.
For one reason or another, she might simply want to take her time. Maybe she doesn’t want to seem too eager, or maybe she’s just busy with work or other stuff in her life right now. Either way, she may not be ready to give you a definitive answer yet.
Many people take their time when responding to texts, especially when it comes to making plans with someone new. That doesn’t necessarily mean she isn’t interested in you; it just means she has some reservations about moving things forward at this point.
3.She doesn’t like what you said.
This is the most obvious reason why she won’t text back, but it’s also the most difficult to accept. If you think about it, you don’t want to be friends with someone who hates everything that comes out of your mouth in a text conversation, so why would she? Here’s the kicker: It probably wasn’t even something you said. The way women read texts and conversations is a lot different than how men do, and that often causes miscommunication between the sexes. The good news is, there are things we guys can do to get better at communicating with women in ways that they understand.
Just because she didn’t respond right away doesn’t mean she’s not interested in what you have to say — sometimes girls just aren’t as glued to their phones as we are (believe it or not). It could also mean that her phone has run out of battery, or that she left her phone at home or at work and isn’t available to talk.
5. She wants to talk, not text.
Some people prefer getting to know someone over text and find that meeting face-to-face can be awkward or uncomfortable because they already feel like they know who they’re sitting across the table from. If this is the case, then it’s probably something that won’t change no matter how long you wait around for her. The best thing to do is move on and find someone else who is interested in you.
6.You didn’t give her enough time to respond.
If you’re friends with a girl, then you probably know whether she’s the kind of person who responds quickly or lets texts sit for hours before replying. If you don’t know this about her yet … well, now’s your chance to find out. It’s best to be prepared for any eventuality, so if she takes a long time to respond once, don’t jump to conclusions and assume she doesn’t like you. Maybe she was busy! Maybe she forgot! Maybe she got lost in space! (OK, probably not that last one.)
7.Maybe they’re not sure what to say back.
Maybe your text was confusing or off-putting. Maybe they’re trying to come up with a good response that will impress you and make you like them even more, but is taking their sweet time doing so.
8.You made a grammar mistake.
Don’t use your phone’s autocorrect as an excuse — it’s never OK to write “u” instead of “you.”
9.You sent too many messages in a row.
If she hasn’t responded after five messages, maybe she doesn’t want to talk right now and is ignoring your texts on purpose. It’s also possible that she simply lost interest or forgot about the conversation and is waiting for you to start it up again. Either way, give her some space and try following up later on.
10.She’s seeing someone else.
Women who are interested in men don’t act like this. When they’re into a man, they reply to his texts and phone calls as soon as they can. They don’t leave men waiting on the sidelines waiting for them to come around.
11.She’s tired of texting with you.
Perhaps you’ve taken too long to suggest a date. Perhaps your texts are too perfunctory or you haven’t made her smile once. She could be losing interest in you and trying to find a way out of texting with you without hurting your feelings.
Takeaway: It’s not always women being flaky or mean that they don’t always respond to your texts when you want them to. approach any woman and get her attention.