If you have ever wondered why men lose interest in women, then you have come to the right place. Here, I will be reviewing 10 reasons why men lose interest in women who they have dated or went out with. Hopefully these reasons will give you some insight into what men are thinking and what they look for in a woman.
1.You’re too busy trying to make him your everything.
You’re constantly worrying about whether or not he’s still into you, and you’re wasting so much energy making sure he knows how much you like him. You need to chill. He’ll get bored of the constant reassurance, and the relationship will fizzle out. Let him do the chasing for a change. If he really likes you, then he won’t have any problem with this.
2. You take away his freedom.
If a guy feels like you don’t trust him or that you have a jealous/insecure streak, then it can put a lot of pressure on him and make him start to question his feelings for you. It will also make him feel like he can’t do anything without consulting you first which is awkward and annoying. Try to relax and enjoy being together instead of constantly asking where he is and what he’s doing — it will make things easier in the long run.
3. Being Too Needy
There are times when you need to lean on the man you love. But if you lean on him too much, he’s going to get tired of feeling like your emotional punching bag. Men don’t want to feel like they’re responsible for every single one of your feelings. They also don’t want to be the only person you turn to for everything. And that’s what it sounds like you’re doing.
4. You’re Overly Ambitious
It’s great that you want a career and that you don’t want to be a housewife, but it’s not great that you talk about these things so much. Your boyfriend probably doesn’t hate women who want careers, but he does hate women who act like men are bad because they don’t want careers or because they do want to be housewives. He might even think that something is wrong with him because he doesn’t want a career. It’s great if you have ambitions as long as you don’t try to make him feel bad for not having those same ambitions.
5. You’re Too Self-Centered And Openly Materialistic
Men really do like to feel special, which is a great thing. Men want to be appreciated and they want to know that they can make you happy. However, if you’re with a guy and you are constantly complaining about how he isn’t doing enough for you, he is going to lose interest in you pretty fast. If he doesn’t feel like he can make you happy then he won’t be around long.
6. You’re A Woman With No Real Direction In Life
The modern independent woman might have been great for feminism and equality between the sexes, but it hasn’t done much for romantic relationships between men and women. One of the big problems with independent women is that many of them are unhappy with where their lives are heading.
7. You Talk About Your Exes And Other Guys All The Time
It doesn’t matter if it’s because you want him to know that they are interested or because you think it will make him jealous. A man will never appreciate hearing about the other men in your life. Stop doing it!
8. You don’t compromise.
Every relationship requires compromise, but if you’re always the one who’s bending over backwards to accommodate someone else’s schedule or desires, that person isn’t going to feel like they need to put in much effort.
9. You’re too high-maintenance.
High maintenance women exist — but guys don’t want to be with them. Men don’t want to feel like they’re in a relationship with their mother, and they definitely don’t want to be nagged all the time.
10. You talk too much about your exes/how you got hurt.
Nobody wants to hear about how their new partner was cheated on or dumped by someone else — especially if this person is constantly talking about that other person and how great they were (which is another sign of emotional immaturity).
11. You’re too independent.
Men are attracted to independent women. We like it when you’re strong and can handle your own problems, but if you’re too independent, it makes us feel as though you don’t need us. It makes us feel useless. We might not show it in the beginning but eventually I will just lose interest and start looking for someone else.
12. You complain all the time.
You complain about your job, your family, your friends, the weather — everything under the sun. You’re just not happy with anything in life, and you want him to fix all of it for you, which is never going to happen.
13. You don’t laugh at his jokes.
You hate everything he likes to do — and he can tell. He wants a girlfriend who’s willing to try new things, but you refuse to give anything a chance. You’d rather spend your weekends watching TV and eating pizza than doing something adventurous together.
14. You don’t know how to take a compliment.
You dismiss every compliment he gives you with a wave of your hand or an eye roll because you just don’t believe him when he tells you that you’re beautiful or that your new haircut looks amazing.
15. You’re insecure about yourself.
He knows that you have self-esteem issues because you always ask him if certain outfits make you look fat or if he thinks so-and-so is prettier than you are. He doesn’t know how to help fix this problem for you because you haven’t learned how to love yourself yet — and it’s exhausting for him to be around someone who’s so insecure about themselves all the time.
There is nothing worse than when a man loses interest in a woman. It can happen for any number of reasons, but if you have been through this experience, there are some things you can do to make sure it doesn’t happen again. Below you will find information on why men lose interest in women, so that you may avoid repeating this life-changing experience.