In today’s world of dating, the feeling of being alone is a hard one to come by. I mean don’t get me wrong, I love my solitude and sometimes you just need your ‘me’ time but other times it’s about feeling connected to someone else. Of course, another pro to this is getting the attention from some guys. It’s pretty simple actually, from personal experience – here are some little tricks to make a guy chose you over someone else.
1.Show Him Your Values
Show him what matters to you. When you say something about a cause or an issue, he is likely to take note of it. He may not agree with what you have to say, but he will be impressed that a woman has her own values and opinions. This kind of conversation may not happen right away; it might take a few dates before it comes up. But if he sees that you have strong values and that they matter to you, he is going to see how special you are
2.Laugh at His Jokes
Laughing at his jokes shows him that you think he’s funny and that you’re comfortable around him. It also shows him that you enjoy being with him and appreciate his sense of humor.
3. Be Yourself
By being yourself, you’re giving him the chance to get to know your true self, which is more important than impressing him with an act. If you’re feeling a little shy or awkward, just act as if you aren’t and fake it till you make it!ays look your best.
4.Ask Questions About Him
Asking questions about your crush lets him know that you care about what he has to say and that you’re interested in getting to know him better. Asking questions isn’t intrusive; it’s a sign of genuine interest in someone else’s life and personality.
5.Take Your Time
He might be cute and funny, but that doesn’t mean you should jump him right away. It’s best to take it slow when getting to know someone new. If he seems too good to be true, he probably is (just look at all the husbands who cheat!).
6.Be confident in yourself.
If he sees that you are happy with who you are, he will be more attracted to you. And when your boyfriend is attracted to you, it makes him want to spend more time with you.
7.Dress for success.
If you want to be seen as an attractive option, you must make sure your physical presence matches up with your personality. If you dress like a slob, it doesn’t matter how great your personality is—you won’t be considered hot. It goes the other way too; if you’re super hot but say little more than “hey,” then he’s not likely to choose you over other girls he might meet that night. You can be both smart and beautiful; there’s no reason why those attributes
8.Don’t ignore him.
If he is there for you when you need him, then make sure you are there for him. It’s not fair if you expect him to be there for you when times get tough but then ignore him when things go well for you. Avoid ditching your friends when they need help because this shows that you only care about yourself and not about other people.
9.Be a good friend.
If you want the guy to like you, he has to like your friends, too. Make sure that you’re friendly to your friends and that you don’t pick fights with them in front of the guy or act snooty around them. If the guy sees that you treat your friends badly, he’ll think twice before getting close to you.
10. Smell good
There is nothing sexier than a woman who smells good; it’s an instant turn on for men! A nice fragrance will make any man want to come close and take a deep whiff of what’s in front of him! Try cologne from Victoria’s Secret, Chanel
11. The right hairstyle
Most men are very visual. They like to see and feel. That’s why a good appearance is so important. But you don’t have to always change your entire look. A new hairstyle can often give you that little extra something and make the difference. So I advise: go to the hairdresser’s. Ask for advice if you are unsure of yourself, because there are many cuts and colors that are not suitable for everyone. In most salons they have hairstyle magazines in which you will certainly find the right style for you. Of course, it also matters whether your hair is thick or thin or curly or straight. You can find out in advance what suits your face shape best with a photo editor like Fotor Photo Editor online.
12. Don’t wear too much perfume
It can get very irritating if your date is gasping for breath throughout the evening because of your overpowering perfume. The right way to go about it is by applying a little bit behind your ears and on the nape of your neck. If you are wearing your hair up, do not make the mistake of spraying it directly on it. As the night progresses, this will start smelling worse and worse. If you have no idea how much is too much, just ask a close friend or relative for their opinion.
13. Have your own life
When you have your own life, you will be able to spend time apart from him, and he will begin seeing the value in having you around. If you are a woman who doesn’t need a man for anything, then it will make him want you more.
14.Be the woman he wants to be with
While it can be tempting to put on an act or pretend to be someone else when you meet a new guy, if he likes what he sees and is interested enough in dating you then eventually he will see through the act. If you want this relationship to last, then you need to show him who you really are early on.
If he doesn’t like it, then it’s better that he moves on now instead of later on down the road when things could get ugly and messy.