From the very start, approach the relationship with a new tactic in mind. This strategy is simple and clear cut, but not an easy one to execute. The key to this whole approach is knowing how your man thinks, where his buttons are, and what makes him tick. Make it easy for him by creating situations where he wins every time! If you’ve noticed that he’s not as eager as he used to be, it may be because you’re doing one or more of things that men hate or don’t want to do
1.Cook him dinner.
Everyone knows that the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach. It doesn’t have to be a five-course meal – just put in a little effort to show him that you care about what he likes.
2.Show interest in his hobbies and friends.
If he loves playing video games, watch him play every once in a while. Ask him questions about his favorite sport and who his favorite players are. By showing genuine interest in his interests, your man will be interested in giving you what you want.
3.Wear revealing clothing.
Men are visual creatures. If you want him to do anything for you, wear something that reveals your body. It doesn’t have to be super revealing like a thong bikini, but even a low cut blouse will get his attention. If you’re going out in public, wear something that shows just a little bit of cleavage to grab his attention and make him think about you later on.
4.Flirt with him.
When flirting with a man, don’t make it too obvious. This can come off as desperate and he won’t even notice when you’re doing it right under his nose! Instead of blatantly flirting with him, try talking to other people and making fun of them so he’ll laugh along with you and feel involved in the conversation while not really noticing how much you’re flirting with him.
5. Smile at him.
Smiling is one of the most inviting gestures a woman can make toward a man, so flash those pearly whites at the object of your affections whenever he catches your eye. He’ll be flattered and more likely to smile back.
6.Let it be his idea.
Men love to be independent (even when they don’t have a clue what they’re doing). This can make it difficult for a woman who is used to taking charge, but if you force him into making all the decisions, he’ll resent you and rebel. Instead of telling him what to do, suggest an idea and let him run with it. He’ll thank you in the end even if he doesn’t admit it at first. By letting him take control, he’ll feel more empowered, which will make him want to do more things for you.
7.Be okay with him not listening to you.
If he doesn’t listen to you, and you make a big deal about it, it’s only going to make the problem worse. He’s going to be more likely to tune you out in the future. If you let him know that what he’s doing is a problem, but that you’re willing to work on it, it will be much easier for him to hear you.
8.Be clear about what you want and expect from him.
It’s impossible for him to know what’s wrong if you don’t tell him, and it’s also impossible for him to do something if he doesn’t know what he’s supposed to do. If you’re upset because your partner didn’t call when he said he would, tell him that next time he needs to call when he says he will. If you’re upset because your boyfriend didn’t hold the door open for you, tell him that next time he should hold the door open for you. It may sound unnecessary, but when people are in relationships they get used to each other and forget that not everyone knows how they like things done.
8.Talk about sex.
If you want to get a man under your power, you must be aware of the effect sex has on his psyche. Remember that men are naturally more turned on by visual stimuli than women, who are turned on by words. So work this to your advantage.
9.Let him know he is appreciated.
Men like to be appreciated just as much as women do. They like to feel needed and that their needs are being met. We all have needs, so it is important to let the other person know when they are meeting your needs. This can be as simple as thanking him for taking out the trash, or having dinner ready when you get home from your busy day at work. Just a simple thanks and a smile go a long way in making someone feel appreciated and wanted.
10.Don’t nag him.
Nobody likes to be nagged, especially men. If you have something to say, ask yourself if it is really worth picking a fight over, and then decide whether or not you still want to say it. Sometimes we all need to just let things go and move on. Remember, everyone makes mistakes, including men!
11.Give him space.
Men like to feel like they have the freedom to be themselves, do what they want, and do something that makes them happy. It’s a man thing! Don’t worry that he’s going to leave you, or think less of you. Men are in it for the long haul when they find the right woman, so they’re not going anywhere.
Takeaway: Men like to be helpful and want to feel needed and appreciated.