I think about this subject a lot, and I’ve learned a lot about what it takes to make a guy want to commit over the years. In this article, I’ll show you three techniques that work well at making any guy fall in love with a girl.
Section: 1. Don’t Contain Yourself
If you want something, don’t hide it. The more you complain about wanting to be in a relationship, the less likely it is that a man will commit to you. A man can smell your desperation from a mile away. And if you’re too pushy, he might run for the hills. Why? Because men have egos too and they don’t like to feel boxed in. If you’re nagging him about committing to you, that’s going to have the opposite effect on him and he might just detach himself from you completely.
Section: 2. Have confidence in yourself and your own worth.
You’ve got to believe that you’re a catch and that any man would be lucky to have you. If you don’t feel worthy of him, then he won’t feel worthy of you, and it won’t matter what he does because he’ll always be able to sense your lack of self-confidence.
Section: 3. Date Other People
There is nothing wrong with dating other people when he hasn’t made a commitment to you. He should be willing to share you with other men until he has decided that this relationship is going somewhere and that he wants to make a commitment.
Section: 4. Don’t wait around for him.
If he hasn’t offered you a commitment, then don’t wait around for him. Don’t sit by the phone and wonder if he is going to call. Don’t be available 24/7. Don’t stop dating other guys. Don’t stop doing things that are important to you so that you can be there whenever he calls (or texts).
Section: 5. Flirting Always Works
You need to flirt with your boyfriend if you want him to want you more. Flirting is a great way of letting someone know that you like them. It is a great way of getting someone’s attention, especially men. Flirting is not just about looking good and wearing the most attractive clothes, but you need to make sure that you are also flirting with your eyes and body language as well.
If you want your boyfriend to be attracted to you, then you need to make it a point to flirt with him. You should never try to force yourself into being too forward because this will only annoy him. You should also avoid forcing yourself into trying to act sexy as well because this will only make him feel uncomfortable as well. If you are comfortable with flirting then this will go a long way in making him want to commit to you.
Section: 6. Give Him Space To Miss You
Don’t call, text or e-mail every day — or even every other day — if you know he needs time and space to sort through his feelings about the relationship.
Section:7. Don’t try to change him.
Trying to change your man is a waste of time, and will only make you both miserable. It will also make him frustrated that you always want him to do things differently. Don’t try to change him, even if he is making mistakes or behaving badly. Once you accept your boyfriend the way he is, it will be easier for him to trust you. He will feel like he can open up about his feelings without being judged.
Section:8.Be independent
Don’t expect your boyfriend to be an extension of yourself, or vice versa. You have your own likes and dislikes, so make sure you’re doing your own thing as well as spending time together. The only person who should have say over what you do with your life is you!
Section:9.Pay attention to the little things.
A little extra effort can go a long way in showing your guy how much you care about him! Men are usually very visual creatures, so surprise him with something like a romantic dinner at home instead of going out all the time. When was the last time you two were sitting on the couch cuddling? Make sure he feels special by giving him a gift every now and then, especially if there’s no particular occasion like his birthday or anniversary.
Section: 10.Be a little challenging.
Be positive and hopeful about your relationship with him. Don’t focus on what might go wrong or what could have been better; focus on what went well and what is going well now. Men are attracted to happy women who don’t dwell on problems but look at the bright side of life instead. So keep in mind that every day is a new beginning for you as far as your relationship goes, practice forgiveness, learn from mistakes, and move forward to create better relationships in the future.
Section:11. Be yourself!
You do not need to work extra hard to impress your man. In fact, being yourself will be more than enough for you to hold his interest in the long run. Do not try to change yourself or act like someone else just so that you can get his attention. If a man loves everything about you, including the way that you talk and act, he will be much more likely to stay in a committed relationship with you.
Section:12. Be positive!
Do you know what he’s been doing for the past 2 months? Really? Okay, I’ll tell you: He’s been thinking about this moment. He’s been trying to figure out how he can ask you out without seeming desperate, without seeming like he’s trying too hard but also without seeming like he doesn’t care enough.
Section: 13.Let him know you want a future with HIM!
When it comes to how to make him want to commit, showing him you are his biggest cheerleader will bring out his protective, more loving side.
This is a really interesting way to get a guy to open up and reveal more about what he wants. It puts him in the position of having to defend what he wants, or admit that he doesn’t see a future with you. In either case, it gives you some insight into how he thinks about your relationship.
Section:14. Don’t pressure him.
You might feel like you need to pressure him into being with you, but we don’t believe in that. He should want to be with you and only you, because you’re awesome!
There’s no one way to get a guy to commit to you. Every guy is unique, and every situation is unique. That being said, there are some standard steps you can take pretty much anywhere in the world, anytime, that can help you get closer to your goals. You don’t have to jump through hoops or say yes when you’d prefer to say no. Just take these steps seriously and chances are things will work out for you.