Guys like being loved in a way that they can respect. They don’t want to be pushed around and mistreated so the last thing you want to do is give the impression that you treat them like meat. The thing about giving those guys what they want is that it’s much easier than it sounds. Most of the time, what men want from women can’t always be expressed in words, so here are some ways to show your guy you care.
1.Men want to be loved by women who are kind.
Men want to be loved by women who are kind. Men love to be around kind-hearted people who will treat them well and with respect. Nobody wants to be with someone who is mean or rude always, so make sure that you are kind to your man if you want him to love you back. Do not get angry at him all the time or talk ill of him amongst your friends as this will only complicate matters more. If you would like your man to love you back, then make sure that you stay kind and show him how much you truly care about him.
2.Men want to be loved by women who are good listeners.
Men want to be listened to, respected and appreciated for their thoughts and ideas, for their accomplishments, and for their strengths. Men want to be loved by women who are trustworthy. Trust is the foundation of all relationships. But men especially need trust from their partner because a man’s sense of self is defined through his ability to achieve results in the world. He needs the freedom to trust that you will always have his back, and that you will support him emotionally when he is in need.
3. Men want to be loved by women who show them affection in public.
Men have feelings too. They might not always be comfortable showing them, but it should come as no surprise that men like feeling valued just like women do. Men want to be seen in public with a woman who is affectionate towards them. Don’t be afraid to hold his hand or show him a little PDA when you’re out with friends or in a public place. A little physical affection can go a long way toward making your man feel supported and loved in public.
4. Men want to be loved by women who don’t take their flaws personally.
We all have them, and there’s no point in pretending we don’t. In fact, most men are attracted to a woman who knows her own imperfections and knows she doesn’t need to pretend she’s perfect.
5. Men want to be loved by women who understand why they need “guy time” and give it to them without feeling hurt or neglected.
When a man gets into a relationship he may feel like he needs to spend all of his time with his new girlfriend. He might even feel guilty if he wants some time alone or with his friends. As the relationship progresses, he will start feeling comfortable enough with you that he won’t feel guilty when he needs some “guy time” every once in a while. The best thing you can do for him at this point is to accept it and respect his need for “guy time” without taking it personally or getting upset about it. If you can do that, then you’ll show him that you’re a woman who truly understands him and loves him for exactly who he is.
6. Men want to be loved by women who are open-minded and don’t try to change who they are.
Men need a lot of alone time to recharge their batteries. Men are usually not the ones to initiate cuddling. Instead men like to just feel appreciated for what they do for you. Men love a woman who knows how to relax and enjoy life, because that is how they like to live life as well. Feeling loved will make him feel safe, open and ready to share himself with you.
7. Men want to be loved by women who show interest in their hobbies, even if it’s just pretending that you do.
If your boyfriend collects stamps, you better make sure you know what’s going on in the stamp collecting world. If he likes football, know the teams and players. When you show a genuine interest in what he likes, it makes him feel like you care about him and that you are invested in his life.
8. Men want to be loved by women who are emotionally stable.
This means that you know how to take care of yourself and your emotions, that you can handle difficult situations without falling apart and that you aren’t erratic or moody all the time.
9. Men want to be loved by women whose positivity is contagious, especially during the difficult times they can’t always explain.
The primary way a woman can make her man feel loved is by being positive. Men are natural problem solvers, and we want to help you with your problems. If you’re always negative and complaining, then we don’t feel needed or wanted.
10. Men want to be loved by women who get along with their friends and family.
Don’t complain about them (unless they’re genuinely being awful), don’t act like they’re annoying you and don’t always call him up every time he’s with them. Men have friends and families for a reason, and part of that reason is for them to spend time away from their partners. Don’t smother him just because your jealousy tells you that you need to.
As you can see, there are many different ways that we want to feel loved. But the key is to remember that every man wants to be loved in a different way. While there is no one size fits all list of what men want, it’s important to keep these different feelings in mind before reading further into this guide.