Do you want to talk to your ex again? Does it feel like she’s not interested in you? Then you need our guide. We’ll show you how to text her again, using simply-written tips and tricks.
1.Too many emojis.
Yes, there actually is such a thing as too many emojis. Emojis are great for expressing emotions and can be a funny way to lighten the mood, especially in the early stages of a relationship. But when your entire text consists of nothing but a single emoji, it almost seems like you just don’t want to talk to her; or don’t have the time to type out what you’re thinking or feeling.
This kind of behavior might be okay if you just met her and had no intentions of seeing her again. But if you do want her to become your girlfriend and not just another late-night hookup, then it’s important that you write actual words every once in a while.
If you use emojis as a replacement for words, she will assume that you’re only interested in hooking up with her and moving on.
2. Acting too available.
This is probably the most common mistake guys make when texting women. They want her to know they’re available, so they send her a quick response every time she texts them. The problem is, it gives off the impression that you don’t have much going on in your life beyond texting with her — which isn’t very attractive. Unless you’re trying to land a booty call, aim for a 4-to-1 rule: For every one message she sends you, reply with four messages of your own. Give her time to respond before hitting her with another text.
3 Not being clear about what you’re texting about.
You send a text to someone and they respond with “Huh?” or “What do you mean?” This can happen if your message contains a lot of jargon or slang that they don’t understand, or if you send them the wrong text by mistake. If the person doesn’t know what you’re talking about, then they might think that you’re crazy, or maybe even cheating on them!
4. Poor grammar and spelling.
If you send a text message that’s riddled with errors, she’ll assume you’re not intelligent or educated. It doesn’t mean that you need to use big words or write a novel, but at least have your basic spelling and grammar down pat!
5. Texting when you’re drunk – or having any kind of alcohol-based excursion.
Whether you’re at the bar with the squad or hitting up a house party with some strangers, alcohol lowers your inhibitions and makes texting that special someone a lot easier. However, as easy as it may be to hit ‘send’ while drunk, it’s also pretty easy to regret anything that you’ve said.
6. Texting too much.
This tends to confuse women because it can seem like he doesn’t care about you if he doesn’t immediately respond — or else he’s too busy for you if he does respond right away with “OK” or “lol.” If you find yourself doing this, try putting the phone down and walk away for a few minutes so you have time to think about what you want to say rather than just typing whatever comes into your head in that moment.
7. Going overboard with compliments.
I don’t know what it is about women and their love for compliments, but we should all just accept it and move on. Complimenting a woman too much is one of the most common texting mistakes men make. If I were to guess, I’d say that most guys compliment women way too much when they’re texting.
The problem with this is if you compliment a woman too much, she will start to get used to it. When she starts getting used to your compliments, she won’t be getting any special feelings from them anymore and it won’t really matter to her if you keep complementing her or not.
8.Talk too much about yourself
This is a common problem men have when texting women. They think they’re being respectful and friendly by sharing information about themselves, but all they’re doing is driving the conversation into the ground because they only talk about themselves.
9. Texting at odd hours, or early in the morning.
If you receive a text from a man at 2 a.m., he may just want some action. It’s okay to send one back if you’re interested, but don’t feel like you have to. If you’re not up for it at 2 a.m., tell him you’ll catch up with him later. You shouldn’t have to be the one to always turn down a late-night booty call (or, in some cases, booty text).
10. Giving women your number when they haven’t asked.
This is like offering a woman your credit card before she’s even ordered her drink. You just don’t want to do it. She hasn’t decided she likes you yet, so why would she want to text you? It’s going to freak her out and make her feel pressured to start talking to you right away.
11. Replying instantly.
He knows you want to talk to him, and he likes talking to you too. The problem is, he’s not in the mood to talk right now. So, instead of picking up the phone or replying to your text the second he sees it, he’s decided to wait a few hours… or maybe even until tomorrow. He doesn’t want you to think he’s sitting around waiting for your messages all day long.
12. Not replying at all.
Not answering a text is like laying out a welcome mat for her to walk away. We know that being glued to our phones is a bad thing, but if she’s into you, she’ll want to hear from you. If you really can’t respond to a text right away, acknowledge that by letting her know that you got it and will get back to her as soon as possible. This will take the pressure off of her wondering why you haven’t responded yet and tell her that you’re interested in talking with her.
13. Overly sexual texts
Texting too sexual or inappropriate right away or after a first date. Women want to feel special and a guy who’s overly sexual right away doesn’t show that he’s interested in her personality and character. If you’re really interested in someone, get to know her before you start talking about sex with her.
We hope you find this list useful and that it prevents you from ever making the same mistakes that most men make when texting women. A majority of the problems people run into while texting can be attributed to one simple error: not following through. Women are empathetic beings, and they know when a man is just trying to get in their pants, so if you’re trying to cultivate an actual relationship with a woman, don’t make these texting mistakes.